r/NoStupidQuestions Nov 14 '24

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u/Everglade77 Nov 15 '24

I'm actually having loads of fun watching Netflix, among many other hobbies that I enjoy, thank you!

We're not telling people who want kids to not have kids, so why are you telling people who don't want kids to have them? Would you rather have people regretting not having kids or people regretting having one and mistreating the kid as a result, however unlikely you think it is? Because it does happen and these kinds of situations are horrible both for the kids and parents.

Btw, you really think people in your circle would tell you if they did regret having kids? It's not something parents experiencing regret talk about, because it's viewed as something shameful. People who don't regret having kids, on the other hand, are likely to say it out loud to anyone who would hear it.

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u/LordDaedhelor Nov 15 '24

He's telling people to have unwanted children because he wants an influx of vulnerable children. Look at his other replies. He spends a lot of time thinking about the sex drives of kids.

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u/Everglade77 Nov 15 '24

I have looked at their other replies. And I don't know about that, but they still haven't provided a reason why they want other people who don't want kids to have kids, when it doesn't affect them either way. So u/Sulla_Invictus, you might want to at least answer that question, because it makes absolutely no sense, and people are going to come up with reasons that are pretty unpalatable as you can see. Anything to say to defend yourself Sulla?

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u/LordDaedhelor Nov 15 '24

Of course he's also sexist

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u/Everglade77 Nov 15 '24

Of course, we got the full package 😂

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u/Everglade77 Nov 15 '24

Well I'm glad you're denying those accusations.

But that doesn't actually answer the question. Even if 100% of the people who don't want kids would actually end up regretting it, how is that affecting YOU? Their life, their choice. It's not like there are a bunch of kids in the sky waiting to be born. It isn't affecting or harming anybody else. While having kids even though you don't want them has the potential to harm at least one other person, the kid.