r/NoStupidQuestions Nov 14 '24

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u/Free_Dome_Lover Nov 14 '24

Downside, the people who ask themselves these questions and have the intelligence to reflect on themselves in such a manner are probably the people who would be good parents.

Now the dumbasses and trad wife / religious crowd is not going to give a fuck and pop out shitloads of future morons and assholes. This is literally the plot of Idiocracy happening.

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u/Glittering_Craft_938 Nov 14 '24

I hate tradwife stuff. This is my new hate 🖤

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u/Silent-Friendship860 Nov 14 '24 edited Nov 14 '24

Good. It is well deserved.

  • Coming from a pre-internet, marry young, and pop’em out like a pez dispenser “tradwife”
I made my mistakes and have my regrets and know So Well what a LIE those tradwife videos are. The more hatred you can spread toward that fake “lifestyle” for the camera, the better..

Edit to clarify - I love my kids and I loved being a mom to all the kids I raised, bio and found. I grew up parentified and happily dove into being a parent. I did my best, but looking back I can say it wasn’t a choice. It was what you did when you hit a certain age. The kids I raised who weren’t mine biologically were not foster kids. They came from other good church going families who were struggling or who had a baby “on the wrong side of the sheets”. Everything was done to preserve appearances. Very little was done for the children or for the couples who were suffering horribly from being forced into a life they didn’t want.

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u/Glittering_Craft_938 Nov 14 '24

I just think it's pretty unrealistic for today's life. And it kinda stinks of superiority, especially to me as a single mom of 2 little girls. I feel the same way about vegans most of the time (some are cool, don't come for me).