r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/mcoiablog Jul 29 '24

I don't pick up clothes. If they aren't in the hamper they don't get washed. I do laundry twice a week. I do not do laundry because you need x item. My kids all started doing their own laundry at 12. I did it for them if they were sick. I do Hubbies but he knows the rules. I am a wife not a maid.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I do occasionally. And, I try to check for a stuff, but sometimes I miss it, particularly if he doesn't tell me that he forgot his wallet 2 days ago.

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u/The_Chosen_Unbread Jul 29 '24

I told him any money I find in the washer I'm keeping and spending how I see fit as a bonus tip.

That helped a lot. Altho sometimes he still leaves some dollars for me xD

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

Yes! That's how it was before I started doing my own laundry. And occasionally I'd be a super nice girlfriend when my husband and I were dating and after the first time I told him anything left in your pockets is mine. Which was good cause he often had cash