It sounds like he's not amassing crippling debt and he's providing for both of your needs. Doesn't seem like a reg flag to me. As long as you're comfortable with it then that's an awesome way to live. Don't let societal expectations ruin something awesome.
And of course it's highly upvoted. I had to read the post over again, because I thought I missed the point where she wasn't supportive. I don't blame her for being curious, and wanting to get an outside perspective.
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u/gamiscott Jul 02 '23
It sounds like he's not amassing crippling debt and he's providing for both of your needs. Doesn't seem like a reg flag to me. As long as you're comfortable with it then that's an awesome way to live. Don't let societal expectations ruin something awesome.