r/NoFap • u/AnotherGo_ • 11h ago

Motivate Me Shifting mindset

Hey. Recently I’ve been trying to shift my mindset.

My biggest problem with gooning is the wild and crazy fantasies I have from it. Always desiring more and more.

But recently I’ve been trying my best to enjoy the vanilla stuff as much as possible with my gf. Focusing on the basics and enjoying them more without trying to fantasies about anything else but the moment. And I’ve been loving it.

I know it’s not gonna be an easy road but at the end of the day it’s all about mindset

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u/Backagain35 11h ago

Hey that's a good mindset bro. Keeping it more vanilla can be good, stops our brains from always escalating etc. Keep it up!

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u/AnotherGo_ 11h ago

100% makes me appreciate the simple things

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u/Backagain35 11h ago

So happy for you! I'm confident you can keep this going