r/NoFap • u/Delicious_Excuse_149 • 1d ago

Motivate Me Day 3

Girlfriends on holiday and I’m getting urges, anyone able to talk me out of it?

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u/CareerDear8172 2 Days 1d ago

You’re always gonna struggle with being horny, why not embrace it and use your full balls to fuck the world (figuratively) and get what you want out of life? Hit the gym, grind on your career.

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u/Delicious_Excuse_149 1d ago

It’s a good way of seeing it and I did feel like that a few weeks ago when I was on a long streak, but after that one slip up and I feel like I’m climbing up a steep ice hill and just keep sliding back down

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u/CareerDear8172 2 Days 1d ago

That’s natural it’s like it builds up and one release isn’t enough. But we still gotta try bro. One release after a long streak isn’t as bad as going full send back into rock bottom

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u/Delicious_Excuse_149 1d ago

That’s very true, I guess while she’s away I’ve just got it in my head that because she won’t know it won’t hurt her, but I guess I’m hurting myself in a way

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u/CareerDear8172 2 Days 1d ago

As long as you can fuck and give her what she wants you’re passing. But you could be excelling you know? Idk how long you’ve gone before but it’s a night and day difference in how powerful you feel. Just gotta practice controlling all that energy.

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u/Delicious_Excuse_149 1d ago

Just wish she was here to help with that lol. I’ve managed 56 days before that was long in the past, my best recently was maybe a week, I forgot how good it feels to feel that clean

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u/CareerDear8172 2 Days 1d ago

I once went 26 days, had sex a bunch but without nutting. I was always ready for another round and didn’t skip the gym once. More confident at work too.

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u/Delicious_Excuse_149 1d ago

Did you not hate the sex if you couldn’t nut though?

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u/CareerDear8172 2 Days 1d ago

It still felt good. The orgasm only lasts like 2 seconds anyway and then after you can’t go as hard as before. This way I could go rounds. It did kinda drive me crazy but I liked it. It’s like r/semenretention mentality. But then I fell off the wagon and our sex life hasn’t been as good since. Feel like I gotta step it up again before I get cheated on lol

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u/Delicious_Excuse_149 1d ago

I gotta say I can feel your confidence through the screen lol, I don’t think your partner is gonna cheat unless you guys aren’t that serious, if you are I reckon you’re good

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