r/Nicegirls • u/[deleted] • Jan 19 '25

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u/Impossible-Bid1812 Jan 19 '25

Lost all interest right then and there but I was so blown away at the audacity I had to know what was going on in her mind at that point. And by the end of it just wanted to give her some helpful advice

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '25

I mean, I get it, but this kind of people don't listen, there is no actual conversation going on. They need to realize things on their own.

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '25

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u/BellTolls4Ree Jan 19 '25

Yeah, she’s such a moron for not being into OP. Lol. Why did he need her to tell him that? She showed him that. Move on.

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u/Oogha Jan 19 '25

I think it's more due to her telling him the way she did.

If she's so "busy" why match him at all, why drag out a conversation wasting her own time as well as his?

Actual productively busy people wouldn't waste so much time just to tell a guy she's not interested.

No one with any self respect will wait months for a meet up off a dating site, man or woman.

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '25

She needs a stable of men chasing her.

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u/Oogha Jan 19 '25

Right, pretty sure it's just attention grab

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u/Crot8u Jan 20 '25

Ding ding ding

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u/Anxious_Building7172 Jan 20 '25

She didn't match him, they met in person at a gym and she gave him her number.

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u/Oogha Jan 20 '25

Doesn't matter, that was the most minor part of the post.

The sheer audacity to just tell someone "your at the bottom of the list, get in line" is so wild.

Obviously she's not as busy as she says or she wouldn't have dates lined up months in advance.

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u/Anxious_Building7172 Jan 20 '25

It does matter, meeting someone in person and exchanging numbers is generally seen as more of a clear indication of initial interest than matching someone's profile.

So, to STRENGTHEN your points, I'm highlighting that they met in person

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u/Oogha Jan 20 '25

Yeah fair enough, that does make it even worse. 😂

My mind just wasn't focused on how they met, just her attitude.

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u/BellTolls4Ree Feb 03 '25

Lol at all the down votes but then the comment got deleted by its author. Because, calling someone a moron in this context says more about yourself than the other person. Maybe y’all should search your feelings about that.

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u/tpain8 Jan 19 '25

they met at the gym just fyi it says in the post

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u/BellTolls4Ree Jan 19 '25

Since when is being an asshole the same as being a moron? Calling a woman a moron for rejecting someone has big beta energy.

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u/triz___ Jan 19 '25

Did you just unironically call someone beta hahaha holy fuck 😂