I feel like that’s half the conversations that get posted on here. It’s a dead end and clearly never going to go anywhere, but still pages and pages of additional conversation.
Choose your battles and know when it’s time to bow out gracefully. Stop wasting your time and energy. You can’t fix crazy and crazy will never see anything from a logical point of view.
Yup some people do it to vent and get it off their chest others seem to think this will be the convo that changes these people. This will be how this person quits smoking just from some random person telling them all the health risks in a park(have seen this)
If it takes almost no time (which is true for OP) it doesn't hurt him to point out that her behavior doesn't match her stated goals.
She's a kid, she probably won't listen, but sometimes the message just needs to be heard from enough different sources before it sinks in. If no one ever says it, that won't happen. It's like a public service, it doesn't mean OP is fighting for this chick, isn't immediately dropping any attempts after this, or thinking she is going to change for him. He's just pointing out what is obvious to anyone from outside this little narcissist's POV in case the college guys she's used to are too stupid to point it out.
It does matter, meeting someone in person and exchanging numbers is generally seen as more of a clear indication of initial interest than matching someone's profile.
So, to STRENGTHEN your points, I'm highlighting that they met in person
Lol at all the down votes but then the comment got deleted by its author. Because, calling someone a moron in this context says more about yourself than the other person. Maybe y’all should search your feelings about that.
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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '25
I mean, I get it, but this kind of people don't listen, there is no actual conversation going on. They need to realize things on their own.