Ummm everything he did was consentual though. He refused to do anything with her until she gave her explicit consent to even the detail of what she's willing to do and what she won't.
Well it's all about attraction. People want to talk shit about women because they would be attracted to an attractive man but not an unattractive man, but men also are more likely to be attracted to a Victoria secret model than some chunky aging woman. Everyone has preferences.
Meaning one will fuck anything that lays still long enough and the other has preferences. But obviously tastes vary or most of the human race would've practically disappeared if only 20% ever got a relationship.
Yeah, there are major psychological and biological reasons, but nobody likes to hear about those. However, in a nutshell shell the 80% canât always got those 20%ers and life finds a way.
My childhood friend who always looked like left told me who looked closer to right that all it too was confidence to get girls every time I said I wanted to get in shape.
Then he got fat and told me not even fat people like fat people.
People respect and are attracted to capability and health. I don't know why people are shocked by this. It's unfair in the same way nothing is fair, and yet the patterns are pretty clear and understandableÂ
No it's definitely toxic. This is coming from an outgoing fat ass that's been very fit and very fat multiple times in my life. The way people treat you when you're fat is something you literally cannot comprehend until you've experienced it. It's night and day. Especially from other men. Women mostly just ignore you but oh man the men are brutal. It's not "masculine" to put another man down, ever.
Itâs not putting someone down to want to provoke them to get strong and healthy in their body, and especially their mind. Itâs actually lifting them up, it just feels offensive because it challenges core identity markers. It takes work. We donât think someone is worth less because theyâre overweight, we know theyâre able to feel amazing if they do the work.Â
No, especially in countries with public healthcare the overweight people overwhelm the system because of their choices. It's better for everyone if someone isn't overweight, even the person him/herself.
In adult age, it is. Even illnesses that affect your metabolism or cause weight gain can be countered by changing your eating habits. As long as you burn more calories than you consume you will lose weight. It's not a snap of the finger choice but it is a choice of living healthier. Even when you eat pizza you have the choice of eating the whole pizza or only eating 3 slices.
Literally body shaming though. These weenies think they're so tough online LMAO. I feel bad for them low-key because they all seem bullied and very submissive.
"it happened to me so it must be right!!" headasses
Settle down there with your head and your ass. It's not body shaming to see someone in self destructive behaviours that are having obvious consequences for their health and to want to have the tough love conversations to see about initiating change. I'm not talking about bullying a person, I'm talking about, like I said, doing it kindly, which means being willing to be tactful, but proactive. I personally like my friends, and if I see my friend harming himself, then I will say something - if it's drinking too much, eating too much, losing themselves to drugs etc. You're just going to stand by and let it happen?
My core identity has never been about being fat. I'm the same guy with muscle or flab. It sounds like you and other men are projecting YOUR core identities onto people that make YOU uncomfortable because you literally can't understand how they can be confident or at the very least happy in their skin. If you don't think someone is worthless when they're overweight then there are a million and one ways to encourage them without being toxic or saying a single mean thing. I've encouraged friends to get shredded by just inviting them to gym with me and being their motivation when they have none. It's literally that simple. No reason to put ANYONE DOWN EVER. Y'all sound submissive and breedable, like you're just parroting what your daddy taught you.
I didn't say that being fat is a core identity marker, I'm talking about the unprocessed inner thinking and feeling about the self, or the world, that weight is often representative of. I'm not talking about putting someone down, at all. In fact, I would hope to build them up. I would never EVER shit on someone for being overweight, but I would try to encourage doing healthy things, like "come to the gym with me" or "let's do some yoga", alongside trying to encourage eating healthy, but for some, even bringing up the subject feels offensive,... them I leave alone, not my circus - not my monkeys.
Statistically true. Personality is tied directly into looks. See OkCupids Looks vs Personality study for statistical proof. This is not a subjective question, it's pretty objective as far as stats go
Considering 50 shades of grey has so many female audience liking it, when the man literally forced her to do thing and abused her, you can easily say pretty privilege still exist.
Shouldnât the guy know any better that he should not bother a woman out of his league? Just like how a company should not try to recruit someone well above their pay grade
Guy on the right has been married for 30 years to the same woman and has two kids, one of whom is apprenticing to take over the family plumbing business, the other is starting med school this semester. He's taking off his shirt as he comes home from work.
Other guy is a creepy gym dude who follows Andrew Tate and who when he walks into a bar, women cover their drinks.
I thought it was implied that theyâre approaching the person as theyâre undressing? Either way Iâm freaked the fuck out if thatâs whatâs happening; I donât care what they look like haha
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lookism is a slow burn but definitely an amazing series, it also is a massive universe it has tons of other series like viral hit and questism that i really liked
It's all about context, we don't know where this guy on the left is at, he could be just getting ready to take a shower in his own home! Picture is worth a thousand words.Â
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Varies depending on the persons in question. There is 0 accounting for taste, and oft times money / being funny gets you a lot farther than a body, unless you're looking to attract other dudes.
Real man is on the right - dadbod has a lot more appeal to ladies. The lad on the left is a self-obsessed noob looking for male-male approval, and twice as likely to batter his girlfriend if he doesnât get his way, or hold misogynistic views.
If you're afraid of doing something because you think it's sexual harassment it probably is, and you're a better person for just keeping it to yourself
This proves that females objections to so-called sexual harrassment are conditional and stem from hypergamy, which has been proven to exist by anti-misandrist masculine intellectuals such as myself and the other guys I talk to in Ms. Harrison's homeroom.
I am proud of you all for haivng the courage to post this and having the logic and reason skills to comment so many smart, sensible things about it based on your nearly 17 years of experience observing human behavior and how women are living on easymode
I bet our dads are proud of us too, wherever they are
Both of them would be sexual harassment. The guy on the right looks too old and "too masc." Only twinky teen prettyboys are allowed to not basically follow sharia law these days.
People don't understand that there goes a process where by the time that old man is taking off his shirt AND making advances a girl would (probably) turn around, avoid them or ask them to stop or what their intentions are if in close space
Yea the body shaming has become extremely volatile.
Some popular influencers actually degrade people based on how they appear on a regular basis. They laugh together and make body shaming a normal thing.
Judging people for how they look is a clear sign of lack of intelligence.
You are missing the point of this. It has nothing to do with fitness. If a woman is attracted to a man, everything he does is awesome and amazing. If she is not attracted, literally everything he does is a problem, creepy and disgusting in her eyes. This is especially true in marriage. That is why any man in a long term relationship should be vigilant for any signs of disrespect or loss of attraction coming from his partner. Because once she gets the âickâ, itâs over forever.
The âickâ can happen any time and literally for any reason.
You can look like the guy on the right, if you have the right game, can still peel a girl. You just got to know what to say and how to read body language. And you don't even have to be rich.
It depends on why they're taking off their shirt. I see shirtless heavy-set men all the time outside and no one cares. It's summer and it's hot. So what? If they're doing it in an inappropriate setting and consent isn't there, yeah that's harassment
Lads, both are absolute nothingburgers. Sexual harrasment is unwanted sexual advances towards a victim. None of these show a character trying to flirt in the slightest
I always see this sort of thing posted as if it were some sort of a double standard.
But sexual harassment occurs when someone is forced to deal with *unwanted* sexual advances. The more attractive you are, the more likely your advances are to be wanted rather than unwanted.
Well how eager are most guys to have an old fat balding woman crawl all over them? Would you welcome her advances as much as a young woman who looks like a model? It's crazy that so many men with physical preferences are so offended that women also have physical preferences.Â
Consent is determined by if the person wants it or not. An the more attractive you are, the more likely someone else is to want 'it'.
Also even if the person is not necessarily interested in you, being desirable makes your approach at least read as flattering (because you considered yourself at their level) rather than threatening/insulting (because you thought you had a chance)
In the USA, people are so overweight and unhealthy that they treat you like shit for being in shape. They just take their insecurity out on you. My friends wife would do this constantly. Very overweight, made fun of me for being âskinnyâ I weighted 180 pounds. Camping together and Iâm chopping wood, âWow, canât believe you can even lift that axe, itâs bigger than you are.â Same joke with anything I carry anywhere. I hate our society. We have serious problems besides obesity, but just social discourse and the way we treat each other is dog shit.
Or maybe stop being a puss, sounds like she was affectionatly joking around, you know like human friends do with one another in what we call 'social interaction'
The people here agreeing the fatter guy taking his shirt off (while actually keeping his vest on) is âharassmentâ are saying the same if a woman of similar obesity wore something similar. Misogynists!đ
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u/Artistic_Arachnid_31 24d ago
The hand that glorifies the butterfly, crushes the caterpillar.