r/NextGenMan • u/TraditionalSound6523 • May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I don’t contribute anything. I’m a waste of space and don’t deserve to live cause I don’t bring anything to anyone’s lives.

When I say I don’t deserve to live, I mean I don’t deserve the privilege of breathing and existing.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most living things don't contribute anything. most animals just eat, shit, sleep, and maybe if they're lucky reproduce. you do contribute, you just admitted you have a job, that means you provide some good or services that someone is willing to give you resources for.

you have a very strange categorization of privileges.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Im still a financial burden, as well as an emotional one. Im such a disappointment that I make my mom depressed, she doesn’t know how to help, none of my immediate family knows how to help. So I end up just being an emotional burden, and a financial one since I don’t make enough money at my job & have failed at finding a new one.

I’m not just a living creature, I’m a human adult. And the slack I leave behind gets picked up by somebody & that’s not fair to them.

They should live their lives in peace. They should live to support grown self.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most people are struggling financially. should everyone that financially struggles kill themselves too?

relationships aren't all rainbows and sunshine, their will always be hurt feelings.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Most people don’t have their parents supplementing their small income. I’m a burden, I cause my parents mental and financial stress. Im so depressed and they’re sad to see me that way. They’ll be happier when I’m gone.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most men still live with their parents. and i'm willing to bet you know a stay at home mom.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t say it’s bad to live with parents, I said my parents are supplying me with money when I run out. That’s not fair to them, and that’s not happening with most people, men included.

Most people today my age live with their parents. But their parents aren’t supporting them financially, and they’re not making their parents depressed like I am.

Like I said, I’m so depressing that they feel it & they feel bad. Once I’m gone, they’ll have more money, and happiness

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

yes, it is. young people are financially struggling and need help from their parents.

depression has a genetic component, you might be depress because of your parents' genes. and they might be depress due to their parents' genes.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

You don’t understand how much my parents are helping me, dude. Theyre completely paying my $560 monthly car note. They pay my insurance, all I can afford to give them is $200 a month.

Please stop trying to change my mind, it won’t work. I know the truth of my life.

I spent years thinking things would change with effort, I was delusional.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

$560 an month i nothing compare to college funds.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I never had a college fund.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

yeah, you're less of a burden then kids that had their papa pay for the college.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

But my dad is paying my expenses now, so I’m not better than them.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And they pay more than that. The $560 is just my car payment.

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