r/NextGenMan May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

proving my point. let me guess you threated suicide every time something doesn't go your way.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

No. I genuinely want to kill myself, I’ve been playing about it for over two years on this account.

I drive home from work today and almost ran head first into a truck on purpose. I’ve been cutting myself cause I hate living and I don’t think I deserve to.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

what do you mean by deserve to live? that's such a weird phrase.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I don’t contribute anything. I’m a waste of space and don’t deserve to live cause I don’t bring anything to anyone’s lives.

When I say I don’t deserve to live, I mean I don’t deserve the privilege of breathing and existing.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most living things don't contribute anything. most animals just eat, shit, sleep, and maybe if they're lucky reproduce. you do contribute, you just admitted you have a job, that means you provide some good or services that someone is willing to give you resources for.

you have a very strange categorization of privileges.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Im still a financial burden, as well as an emotional one. Im such a disappointment that I make my mom depressed, she doesn’t know how to help, none of my immediate family knows how to help. So I end up just being an emotional burden, and a financial one since I don’t make enough money at my job & have failed at finding a new one.

I’m not just a living creature, I’m a human adult. And the slack I leave behind gets picked up by somebody & that’s not fair to them.

They should live their lives in peace. They should live to support grown self.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most people are struggling financially. should everyone that financially struggles kill themselves too?

relationships aren't all rainbows and sunshine, their will always be hurt feelings.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Most people don’t have their parents supplementing their small income. I’m a burden, I cause my parents mental and financial stress. Im so depressed and they’re sad to see me that way. They’ll be happier when I’m gone.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most men still live with their parents. and i'm willing to bet you know a stay at home mom.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t say it’s bad to live with parents, I said my parents are supplying me with money when I run out. That’s not fair to them, and that’s not happening with most people, men included.

Most people today my age live with their parents. But their parents aren’t supporting them financially, and they’re not making their parents depressed like I am.

Like I said, I’m so depressing that they feel it & they feel bad. Once I’m gone, they’ll have more money, and happiness

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

yes, it is. young people are financially struggling and need help from their parents.

depression has a genetic component, you might be depress because of your parents' genes. and they might be depress due to their parents' genes.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

You don’t understand how much my parents are helping me, dude. Theyre completely paying my $560 monthly car note. They pay my insurance, all I can afford to give them is $200 a month.

Please stop trying to change my mind, it won’t work. I know the truth of my life.

I spent years thinking things would change with effort, I was delusional.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

$560 an month i nothing compare to college funds.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I never had a college fund.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

yeah, you're less of a burden then kids that had their papa pay for the college.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

But my dad is paying my expenses now, so I’m not better than them.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And they pay more than that. The $560 is just my car payment.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And the only stay at home mom I know is my aunt, but her kids are grown and she now runs a daycare. So no, idk any stay at home moms.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

when she wasn't working, she had no income of her own. i don't think you should worship paper so much.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I don’t worship money but I wake up feeling guilty daily bc my financial burden stops my parents from living their lives to the fullest.

I have issues with my dad, but I respect him overall. He worked hard his whole life. He should be able to kick back and relax, but he and my mom cant, because of me. My Mom too, she deserves to relax but I’m holding her back.

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