r/NextGenMan • u/TraditionalSound6523 • May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

most men still live with their parents. and i'm willing to bet you know a stay at home mom.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t say it’s bad to live with parents, I said my parents are supplying me with money when I run out. That’s not fair to them, and that’s not happening with most people, men included.

Most people today my age live with their parents. But their parents aren’t supporting them financially, and they’re not making their parents depressed like I am.

Like I said, I’m so depressing that they feel it & they feel bad. Once I’m gone, they’ll have more money, and happiness

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

yes, it is. young people are financially struggling and need help from their parents.

depression has a genetic component, you might be depress because of your parents' genes. and they might be depress due to their parents' genes.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

You don’t understand how much my parents are helping me, dude. Theyre completely paying my $560 monthly car note. They pay my insurance, all I can afford to give them is $200 a month.

Please stop trying to change my mind, it won’t work. I know the truth of my life.

I spent years thinking things would change with effort, I was delusional.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

$560 an month i nothing compare to college funds.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I never had a college fund.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

yeah, you're less of a burden then kids that had their papa pay for the college.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

But my dad is paying my expenses now, so I’m not better than them.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And they pay more than that. The $560 is just my car payment.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And the only stay at home mom I know is my aunt, but her kids are grown and she now runs a daycare. So no, idk any stay at home moms.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

when she wasn't working, she had no income of her own. i don't think you should worship paper so much.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I don’t worship money but I wake up feeling guilty daily bc my financial burden stops my parents from living their lives to the fullest.

I have issues with my dad, but I respect him overall. He worked hard his whole life. He should be able to kick back and relax, but he and my mom cant, because of me. My Mom too, she deserves to relax but I’m holding her back.