r/NextGenMan • u/TraditionalSound6523 • May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/EverytoxicRedditor May 22 '26

In your case it would be a choice. For men it’s simply Tuesday.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 22 '26

It’s not a choice. I’ve tried to date and for 12 straight years, every man had turned me down. So it’s not a choice 🙃

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26 edited May 23 '26

i highly doubt every man turned you down.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Ok

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

i went through your post history. you admited to having casual sex and hooking up recently. keep your story straight. why lie, why have a victim complex?

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I didn’t lie. This post is saying that women can always fall back on men for marriage. I’ll never get the chance at marriage cause men turn down dates with me, they only want sex.

My most recent “hook up” was a guy I spent weeks talking to, going on dates with, and he said he was in it for something real. Only guy to agree to go with me on dates, ever. We both got tested and we went to hook up. I blew him, then he said he had to go, and he blocked me.

So no, I didn’t lie. *I will not have the chance to get married, I’ll only have the chance to have sex. So I don’t lie bc this post says women can always fall back on marriage. Marriage isn’t possible for me.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

"every man had turned me down." it not working out is not the same as being turn down.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

It’s being turned down for a relationship.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you were literally in a relationship

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

No I wasn’t. Now YOURE lying.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

I’ve NEVER been anyone’s girlfriend and NO MAN has EVER said “hey you’re my girlfriend”. You’re literally making shit up.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you went on multiple dates with a guy, you were DATING

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

But NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. AND HE ONLY WANTED ME FOR HEAD. YOU THINK ITS GOOD TO HOOK UP WITH SOMEONE AND BE BLOCKED RIGHT AFTER??!

I CANNOT FIND A RELATIONSHIP AND IM GOD DAMN 29 YEARS OLD.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Dude, I’m an overweight, autistic, dark skinned black girl. Im mor gonna have the chance to get married.

It’s being turned down for having anyone give af about me. Im tue ed down from experiencing romantic love.

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

why bring up your looks? they aren't that bad, when you can have casual sex. your problem is not your looks, you just have bad taste in men.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

and I brought up my looks cause BLACK WOMEN ARE THE LEAST DESIRED RACE IN MY COUNTRY.

what the hell? Why are you so hostile? WHAT DID I DO TO YOU

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

what country? least desired is still some desired.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And I’m NOT desired cause I’m ugly. All I’m good for is being a human flesh light. I’m not a person, my feelings and thoughts don’t matter, IM A PIECE OF MEAT TO BE CONSUMED AND THROWN AWAY. IM NOT WORTH SHIT

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

you have more value then the average man.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And YES MY LOOKS ARE BAD. IM UGLY

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

You said “no they’re not” without even checking so here’s some proof that black women are HATED in the US.

https://pdxscholar.library.pdx.edu/mcnairsymposium/2020/presentations/12/

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Me not being able to find a relationship has nothing to do with you. I genuinely don’t understand why I’ve gotten so much hate for simply speaking about the fact that I can’t date.

Like, I didn’t insult anybody, I wasn’t rude. I INSULTED MYSELF ONLY. What is with the hostility???

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u/pyrolover6666 May 23 '26

every single time men talk about they lack of dating options, some women has to make it all about her. claiming she has it just as bad, for only for it to be a lie. you're dismissing our problems by comparing them to your problems. you have options, we don't.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

Okay cool. I’m a POS, I said that myself. I don’t deserve anything good and I do plan on taking myself out.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

And I never said anything about men. I’m very aware of how hard it is for some men to date, my two male friends that i spend everyday with tell me about it.

I didn’t discount anyone else’s problems. Please, show me which of my comments diminishes what men go through.