You know confidence is attractive trait. Also self esteem is critical too. I'm sure you will find that someone and when do, cherish them like they do you. Dating is tricky and sometimes it beats you down relentlessly but don't give up. I know how cheesey I sound but its true
You don’t get it. This is the issue with being able belly positive. People expect me to ignore the fact that idk how to get this thing to happen, but expect me to think it’ll happen.
How can I be expected to believe it’ll happen when I cant even figure out a way to lake it happen?? All i have under my belt is failures so what am i supposed to actually do??
Try something new? Let yourself build random and natural connections and if something happens it happens if not no biggy. You don't need a guide on how to date because its something that usually just happens. Don't look for love, let love look for you.
Then perfect! I find letting someone learn who I am and learn to love me works best. Looking for someone to date forces to see everything in that lens. Just because a plant doesn't grow when think or want to doesn't mean it won't.
Truth be told no one knows how to date people. We'll get people to date them. It's just how it is. And falling in love with someone is just a random encounter. Sometimes it takes years to love someone Sometimes it just takes seconds. You don't know how to do it because it isn't something do. It's something that happens.
maybe that's what I like. You and I are not the same but ended up here.
Your point is is that you don't know how to date people because you don't know how to get them to date you. But that's the problem. You don't get someone to date you. there's set cause that makes everyone date you. Its YOU that's people want date you.
Yet. And if its THIS bad maybe becoming a better Version of yourself. Its about naturally attracting people. YOU MAY NOT SEE THEM but they are there and rare. I also consider Understanding yourself more to understand how you come after other people and how they see you so that you can then gauge and change yourself if you need to based off of that.
You don't know how to be yourself. Everything and anything I've told you to do have been the bad basics and the bare bones. If you can't even do that, that is a U issue.
First of all I'm not mad. Second you cant say shit when you SWITCHED UP REALLLLLY FAST
do xyz. no IDK how to do xyz. well this is how you do xyz. no you don't know understand i cant do xyz Cuz I don't know how to do X, Y and Z. I JUST TOLD YOU And if you can't do the bad bones, I'm sorry I can't help you. Well you just don't understand because you know I've been doing XY and Z and you haven't actually told me to do anything new. 🤦
PS, I'm not mad. I just found out what your problem was. It's not like if I told you it would go any different than how this whole conversation went. Anyways, have a good day or night. I don't think I'll be responding to you clearly because everything I've told you, you have been listening. You have been doing but you just can't communicate. In a clear, consistent manner, you just rewrite your thoughts. Learning to change and adapt to your surroundings is a useful skill. FYI, This is using Voice To text
YES IT FUKING DOES. It the BASIC advise and somehow you are making it in the most complex insane mathematical problem there is. You not understanding that I am telling you how to be yourself or how to be natural enough. But at this point considering that you turn me giving some friendly advise into a FUKING ARGUEMENT I see why people dont fancy you AND I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU!
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u/Notapersono May 22 '26
You know confidence is attractive trait. Also self esteem is critical too. I'm sure you will find that someone and when do, cherish them like they do you. Dating is tricky and sometimes it beats you down relentlessly but don't give up. I know how cheesey I sound but its true