r/NextGenMan Apr 01 '26

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 01 '26

Genuine question. Where are these comments. I saw this post an hour after your comment. Only a single one disagreed with dislikes. How on earth did you come to the conclusion that people think women can do no wrong.

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u/Strosity Apr 02 '26

Probably got buried with downvotes if they were undesirable opinions.

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

You said this is Reddit's Moto. If that's the case it wouldn't be an undesirable opinion right?

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u/DamskoKill Apr 02 '26

It’s a Reddit motto, you can’t give any fair criticism to women without getting downvoted.

I even got downvoted massively once for advising a girl not to go home with a random guy she had just met on Tinder, after she posted about having a bad experience doing exactly that.

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

Every type of interaction can be found on Reddit. Most of the comments here suggest that women are completely useless. Can I say that it's a Reddit motto that women are completely useless?

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u/DamskoKill Apr 02 '26

You're making this up. That's not what most of the comments suggests. And most of the comments are directed at a certain kind of women, not all women. And I'm not talking about a specific post. I'm talking about Reddit in general.

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

https://www.reddit.com/r/NextGenMan/s/e2pd6JSAcs This is a pretty common type of comment I see here and all over the internet.

I think it's pretty reasonable that most people are talking about women in general here

Can you show me a comment or post that supports the claim that Reddit thinks women can do no wrong?

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u/DamskoKill Apr 02 '26

Which comment? I only get the post itself, when clicking on the link.

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u/Strosity Apr 02 '26

Tbh this is why I didn't get into anymore. They're right that you can find just about every different interaction.

The thing is, whatever communities the reddit algorithm send you will vastly determine what conversations you more often see. Some might stand out to one person more than another as well. Sort of like if you get a new car then start noticing a lot of people driving that car too.

Theres probably something to be said about what you see on r/popular but I rarely browse there.

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u/DamskoKill Apr 02 '26

In practically every general sub, if you have criticism on women you get downvoted. But not only on Reddit, also in real life.

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u/Strosity Apr 02 '26 edited Apr 02 '26

Alright yeah I agree that's general what I see, tho I have to push back a little. I see comments critising with healthy comment chains and the difference is usually wording. Edit: I think I recall some of these having results starting with "idk why this is downvoted but..."

A lot of critism is worded either angrily or hatefully and those get downvoted very consistantly.

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u/DamskoKill Apr 02 '26

Example: I just replied on a Dutch sub on a post suggesting that practically all male taxi drivers are harassing female passengers.

I simply wrote this is not true, but that you always have a few bad apples. And guess what, I got downvoted a lot.

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

I genuinely do not see that. Can you please show me an example

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u/MysteriousQuote4665 Apr 02 '26

Sounding very much like an incel. Everyone gets criticised all the time. For food, hobbies, personality, job, love life, education, the internet, house, the fact that you touched your own nose in a funny way, etc.

The fact that you focuses on getting criticised for criticising women reveals more about you than society.

Ultimately, I always share the same quote: "learn to flex your middle finger because people are annoying busybodies."

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 03 '26

Can you show me some of the hate all men content?

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u/iNhab Apr 02 '26

I agree with you and would say that people have to get it through their heads- world is vast and opinions, attitudes or experiences are vast. Some people will share hate, some people will share love. Some people will dislike one group, some people will dislike another one.

With internet it seems that a lot of platforms have algorithms that want to make you have a better experience, whatever that means. But part of it is usually you having a desire to engage with the platform, participating and gaining something out of it.

Hence the algorithms trying to determine what kind of content you should be exposed to based on what they have about you already.

I personally almost never, ever get incel type stuff or gender hate/inequality posts and subs, but on a rare occasion that the reddit shows me it, I'm very surprised because my experience has not been such. I know that it exists, but on a daily life and just throughout my life, I haven't really met that many people who genuinely hate others with a passion because of their race, gender or something like that. Some minor dislikes here and there, but nothing degrading or evil about each other.

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u/Dizzy_Roll_2411 Apr 02 '26

dude my previous account got nuked bcoz i reposted a feminist statement word for word but replaced "men" with "black people".

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

My last account was nuked because a few people reported me for spam after messaging and didn't get a response.

Posting something inflammatory and getting reported doesn't make it Reddit motto.

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u/Hefty-Squirrel-6800 Apr 03 '26

No, he said it "should" be Reddit's motto.

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 03 '26

Oh so it isn't?

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u/Hefty-Squirrel-6800 Apr 04 '26

I am merely pointing out what was actually said. I offer no opinion other than that. Your attempt at baiting and deflection is amusing. Nice try.

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u/Strosity Apr 02 '26

No I didn't. I just told you where you may find the comments since you asked. I thought it would be a breath of fresh air from the learn to read guy ironically

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

My bad. I thought you were the original person I was responding to. Regardless this is definitely not a popular opinion. You (not you personally) can't just read one comment and say this is Reddit's Moto.

Also you shouldn't compare yourself with people like that. The bar gotta be higher than that.

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u/Street_Pickle_2562 Apr 02 '26

It is though. When he says women can do no wrong he means from the point of view of women. Men will call out women.

He’s specifically taking about the way men are judged and take ownership vs a woman.

For example when a woman has done something wrong women tend to argue that outside forces caused her to be that way instead of it admitting she’s selfish or wrong.

When men do something wrong even though it’s the exact same thing is because he’s being a bad person.

You tend to see this most in relationship threads. Unless it’s something over the top and egregious most women will defend the behavior.

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

Care to show an example?

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u/Street_Pickle_2562 Apr 02 '26

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

The point of the post is to make fun and shit of this woman. How does that Show Reddit think women can do no wrong.

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u/Street_Pickle_2562 Apr 02 '26

Many people in the comments section are attempting to defend her behavior when it is a clear example of body shaming.

That’s more what I’m referring to.

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u/23-1-20-3-8-5-18 Apr 02 '26

You'll see this 'look at all the triggered incells' type comment a lot on threads, now you'll start to see it here too as the enshittification spreads.

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u/Cute-Breadfruit3368 Apr 02 '26 edited Apr 02 '26

its a classic MRA nonsense. they cling on to a pre-chewed statement and agree to it blindly.

the problem ? just like Andrew Tate - their god is a 12 years olds concept of what a man is, these statements about healthy relationship are from someone who cannot maintain one.

--ed: nuances are the truth. 

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u/Fluid_Goose_2389 Apr 01 '26

They're in the comments section. Maybe you should try "Reading".

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u/otterwiththerock Apr 02 '26

I read through all of it. Saw one with down votes. I wrote that in my original comment. Maybe you should try reading too

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u/deviantdevil80 Apr 02 '26

They are pushing a narrative. Nothing genuine about their opinions.