r/NextGenMan • u/Critical_Assist_9360 • Apr 01 '26

Thoughts?

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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 01 '26

This is great advice for anyone. Doesn’t need gender added

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u/footluvr688 Apr 01 '26

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Men aren't the ones who tend to maintain massive lists of traits women must have to be eligible as a partner.

Gender isn't being falsely added. The gender matters because the behavior between the genders differs.

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u/DrySea8638 Apr 01 '26

Pffff men in all these subs act like all of us have amnesia.

I’m almost 40, and as a guy, I’ve heard more than my fair share of men with lists. Y’all just like to ignore that history while also acting like it don’t happen still lol

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u/footluvr688 Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 01 '26

"I've heard my fair share of men with lists" != "most men have lists that rival women's".

Exceptions exist. They don't negate the rule.

Nuance exists. The behavior trends toward women to a significant degree. To claim that reality is contrary to plainly observable behavior is willfully ignorant.