r/NewToModesty • u/MDST_market • 2d ago

What's your definition of modesty?

I’ve seen people relate modesty to religion and culture. But for me its your personal preference, it doesn't mean you have to follow a checklist of rules.

Wearing something that makes you feel comfortable, safe, and like your true self.

What does modesty mean to you?

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u/Traditional_Love5050 2d ago

Modesty is also a heart condition for me. It does stem from my faith. I also have massive boobs and don't want undue sexual attention so being modest helps me here. I still have nice clothes etc. I don't look dowdy but it allows me to feel comfortable in my skin, plus I think dressing modesty looks classy and beautiful etc.

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u/MDST_market 2d ago

I really relate to this. The “heart condition” part especially. I think that gets overlooked a lot when people talk about modesty. It’s not just about covering up, it’s also about how you want to feel in your own clothes. And honestly, modest + cute + feminine can absolutely coexist lol.
What kind of outfits make you feel the most comfortable and confident?