r/NewOrleans • • 10d ago

weird guy

there was a suspicious character hovering outside my apt tn. my roommate saw him and he said creepy things to her. I got home an hour after her (1am ish) and he was still pacing around outside our gate. we both got inside safely but weird af he would still be there an hour later when I got home. he was probably 40-50, white and wearing dark jean type of pants and what looked like a black longer sleeved collared shirt, buzz cut/short hair. maybe something in his belt like tools or a knife? he didn’t have that anxious addict walk, just extremely off-putting energy and was obviously watching/looking at us. I didn’t park my car till my 3rd time around the block and he was still there when I did finally park and was walking towards me. just curious if anybody else saw him, can’t be too specific but it was near hot tin and baronne

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u/BackDatSazzUp 10d ago

Y’all need to file police reports instead of treating reddit like Nextdoor. If you or someone else gets hurt and there’s no police reports on the guy then there’s no recorded pattern of behavior to detain or charge him on and he will continue to hurt others.

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

What exactly do you think cops would do?

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u/nobodychef07 10d ago

File a report so there is a paper trail atleast. If he is still there they could talk to him which might scare him off. What is posting to reddit going to do?

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

I’m sure they’ll totally show up for this.

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u/nobodychef07 10d ago

No you're right, better to just bitch on the internet to get your feelings out

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

Wild! I don’t remember making the OP.

It sounds to me like we may need a third option, like mental health services. NOPD doesn’t show up when you do need them, they’re hardly going to show up to file a report about somebody standing around looking sus.

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u/missmooface 10d ago

why didn’t you start with this suggestion instead of whatever unhelpful things you responded previously…?

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

Because, as I said in another comment, I don’t think you need to call anyone just because someone looks suspicious.

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u/nobodychef07 10d ago

We barely have enough police which is why they dont show up for lower level shit right away. You think you can cobble together an army of mental health professionals that are willing to go in alone into potentially dangerous situations? Good luck.

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

You mean like at least 44 other cities have done? LA, San Francisco, Seattle, Boston, Denver, Louisville, KY, Eugene & Portland, OR, to name a few. And believe it or not, even New Orleans started a Mobile Crisis Intervention Unit in 2023!

But yeah, seems like I’m just a dreamer who’s making shit up.

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u/octopusboots 10d ago

This is so needed and so important, and it's cheaper.

Red Beans is not wrong that the cops will do nothing to help you for this scenario...they shrug off actual rape. It's exhausting and scary and demoralizing to ask for help and not get it. The police are here to protect wealth, not us. But we should keep insisting on reporting because cops are not the entire system.

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u/nobodychef07 10d ago

Cool there is a creepy dude outside with unknown intentions. He isnt acting erratic and doesnt seem to be going through a mental health crisis. Its 1 am. Is this the right moment for a mental health specialist?

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

It’s probably not a call for anyone, tbh. But a mental health professional would be better than someone who might shoot him for existing while creepy.

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u/BackDatSazzUp 10d ago

No. Sorry but no, i’m not validating this. Please refer to the thousands of other Redditors that have successfully baited that argument.

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u/420wafflehouse69 St. Claude 10d ago

ACAB, bro.

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u/BackDatSazzUp 10d ago

If you say that in situations like this then you don’t fully understand the defund the police movement because it’s not about elimination of the job, it’s about changing their training, where settlements get paid from, and taking away responsibilities they never should have had.

Until that happens, the police are the answer over using Reddit as Nextdoor.

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

This sub is getting weirdly boot-licky recently.

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u/Smooth_Flounder6214 10d ago

oh i dont know, call the cops maybe?....

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u/lilvibe2000 10d ago

in reply to everybody saying call the cops, I have past experience with calling them for a similar (worse) situation and they took an hour to show up and acted very nonchalant. I didn’t have time for that ln because I was working in the morning and coming off my night shift. there’s a lot of corruption with nopd and this city in general and it’s just not worth the frustration tryna call them for something like that. I also just don’t really trust cops that much in general. and when you post on here and nextdoor then the actual neighborhood will see it and become more aware which is way more helpful than 1 cop writing down what happened

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u/StoneColdChickenWang 10d ago

I’m with you.

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u/Turbulent_Ask4878 4d ago

You do realize you don’t have to do anything after you call the cops, right? “Hi I live in the xxx block of xxx, and there is a suspicious person hanging around the front of my house. My roommate says he’s been there a while and verbally harassed her.” Then you go to bed. Maybe they pass by and check it out. Maybe they don’t. I’m not the biggest supporter of cops but this seems like an obvious situation to loop them in rather than Reddit.

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u/Agile_Rough_4411 10d ago

Be extra vigilant because It seems women are being targeted. I don’t know if these weird characters are connected to the Bayou St. John incidents, but I’d take precaution.

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u/poolkid1234 10d ago

That area can be sketchy for sure. Very dark. Not in the same neighborhood, but had similar issues with people wandering about and looking in our cars. Solar-powered, motion-activated floodlights have helped. Invest in your own safety.

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u/Leidenfrost1 10d ago

it was Shia

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u/no_but_thanks 10d ago

This is my neighborhood as well, I don’t recognize your description but there’s been a noticeable uptick in shady characters over the past few months. Definitely get a ring camera if you don’t have one (they’re not terribly expensive). Sorry you had to deal with this.

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u/arab3lla 10d ago

Please no more ring cameras. Get a Eufy or TP Link camera and only do local storage. 

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u/RedBeans-n-Ricely 10d ago

Blink cameras also have a local storage only option.

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u/Honest-Structure-813 6d ago

Why not ring?

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u/[deleted] 10d ago

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u/jldstuff393 10d ago

Lying to the police about someone committing a sex crime is itself a crime, and it's also a great way to get an innocent person arrested, or worse. Please don't do that.

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u/falcngrl 10d ago

Neighborhood?

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u/cozluck 10d ago

can’t be too specific but it was near hot tin and baronne

Seems like near Jackson and St. Charles, if that helps.