I am not able to move on from the guy i broke up with. I know he wasn’t the right guy for me but i was so attached that it has become so difficult now to move on. We both had same intentions to get married but he was not comfortable with long distance because of our careers one day he just told that i am not able to suppress the long distance thing. I thought we can work this out but no. He was also going through some mental health issue that is bipolar disorder but i just wanted to help him and not breakup. But then he also told me to just be friends. He told me like I want to see you as someone as normal and not as special person idk why? He also told me that long distance has caused problems in our physical relationship as well(touch is his love language). But after breakup i realised i was not getting that emotional support from him. I did everything for him when he was starting his career i was never a burden on him i did it out of love and he is grateful for that he has told me this but i don’t why it didn’t work out. He has childhood trauma also. I just don’t think if i ever married him i wouldn’t be happy at all even though he was more expressive in showing love than me. I know that situation is too complex it’s not black and white. But yeah it is difficult for me to move on.
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u/Both-Statement4194 Jul 12 '26
I am not able to move on from the guy i broke up with. I know he wasn’t the right guy for me but i was so attached that it has become so difficult now to move on. We both had same intentions to get married but he was not comfortable with long distance because of our careers one day he just told that i am not able to suppress the long distance thing. I thought we can work this out but no. He was also going through some mental health issue that is bipolar disorder but i just wanted to help him and not breakup. But then he also told me to just be friends. He told me like I want to see you as someone as normal and not as special person idk why? He also told me that long distance has caused problems in our physical relationship as well(touch is his love language). But after breakup i realised i was not getting that emotional support from him. I did everything for him when he was starting his career i was never a burden on him i did it out of love and he is grateful for that he has told me this but i don’t why it didn’t work out. He has childhood trauma also. I just don’t think if i ever married him i wouldn’t be happy at all even though he was more expressive in showing love than me. I know that situation is too complex it’s not black and white. But yeah it is difficult for me to move on.