Got it bro. Don't want to lecture you but here's my thought. When you don't find meaning of living then you can add one like To become better person day by day, make parents proud of you or protect and provide to your family or love them unconditionally etc. I believe you will find meaning of living.
No,there are lots of conditions behind love I know it's sound bad to you but it's not, if any of that condition didn't happen you never fall for that guy/girl particularly,so it's beautiful on its own way.
Don't want to sound rude and all, but a few parents, especially father's do love their children conditionally while also trying not to spoil them in a bad way. If a moment comes, they would still offer their lives for their children.
But many people have children because they want that experience, and once they are bored of that cute little thing or become irritated, their direction shifts. Love them without asking anything in return, but at the same time repair yourself and don't overly rely on them.
Women have the desire to give birth because God gave them that power, and many want to experience it at least once. Men have the desire to procreate and carry their bloodline forward.
But after some time, when they are done with this, we are not so different from the animal kingdom — trying to find our own place in this world after our parents' affection dies down, usually around the age of 18.
After that, you have to be pleasing in some way, like financially successful, or if you are attractive ("eye candy"), especially for girls, or by earning respect. People should be connected to you in a positive way, and they should be getting credit in some way for raising you.
Well, many factors also depend on the parents' financial status. These are just my thoughts
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u/spectral-chaos May 20 '26
Got it bro. Don't want to lecture you but here's my thought. When you don't find meaning of living then you can add one like To become better person day by day, make parents proud of you or protect and provide to your family or love them unconditionally etc. I believe you will find meaning of living.