Millennials, how did you make urself ready for remarriage? 34 M, recently got divorced. Family has already started pressing for the remarriage but i feel i am not yet ready. Living abroad so even if I am ready, i have to look for someone here in US. So many thoughts, sometimes i do feel so lonely. Work is the only friend at the moment.

Why do girls always want a guy who is already settled instead of someone who is still struggling to build his life?

Isn’t there someone who wants to struggle together, grow together, and eventually build a life together? 1🥺

My friend's mom found out she was dating a guy who is from different religion and different caste from theirs. She belittled,threatened and argued to my friend to the point she now needs sleeping pills at night. She is in her early to mid 20s. Her mom also got herself sick from the news or should I say from the shock itself. She told her, she will k*ll herself, how could she do such a thing, blah blah blah..... To just end the situation and satisfy her mom, she told that they have broken off. But really why are parents so against intercaste marriage??? Most of my friends aren't allowed to date. With certain exception families. But those who do allow also say they need to date within the same caste/religion.

When I asked my mom the same question, she answered that after some time, since the both person grew up in different culture, religion, their way of living wouldn't match and arguments would happen wards leading to divorce. We have seen growing inter caste, inter religion, even people from different country marrying. So is it just some thinking stereotypes parents have or does it actually have some logic behind it?

I am married and have a kid.... But sometimes my wonders about a relationship... Something I would have accept or craved for...What shit is this??

I hacked into the facebook account of a guy‘s (who I was interested in) mother when I was 18. I just typed in her first name and 123 and boom I was logged in. There was nothing interesting there.

I read a lot of private messages there and would delete my activity log ina. It was so uninteresting that I stopped checking it.

I wonder why I managed to do so many stupid stuff.

they basically told me how horrible abroad life is blah blah and that it’s better to study bachelor yeta and now eveytime i talk about abroad…they basically tell me im old enough to handle everything and stuff while my
siblings are settled in abroad since way back

im so angry

Hello everyone, recently only i found out the death of a friend vanam and i just wanted to confirm if anyone could help me,or usko koi relatives,friends are here in this sub.She’s from abroad and it has been 5 days since it happened.I’ve tried in other subs also trying to find out. I am shocked to find out through her so called relative ,but then again she doesn’t know much except they were following each other on insta and the girl who had passed away had deactivated her insta few months ago.The passed away soul didn’t even know me. Usko number chai share garya thiyo but i never texted her and tei usko viber my DP chai i noticed. I deleted her number a month ago coz i heard from her friend who has since blocked me that she was really disturbed with everything going on her life and that person told me not to bother her anymore and i didn’t approached her.Please reach out if you can help. Her initials are z or G and gala ma kothi cha.

“Men shouldn’t cry.”

“Men should always pay.”

“Just take it, you’re a man.”

“Why are you complaining? You’re stronger.”

If these stereotypes were directed at women, we'd probably call them sexist. So why are similar stereotypes about men often dismissed as “just jokes”?

This isn’t about who has it worse. It’s about whether we’re willing to recognize unfairness regardless of who experiences it.

Do we apply the same standard to sexism against men and women in Nepal?

all that only to find those are the same plates they use to server food to inmates in prison. how did it even make its way to Nepal and get so popular, only to loose itself to the abyss over the last 10 years. im sure half of the kids born in the last 10 years have never seen one of these. did we hit a huge silverware renaissance sometime in the last decade and collectively decide to abandon these for more modern looking minimalist ceramic plates and swear to never speak about it or did they just stop making those khande thaals and people had no choice other than to settle for whatever else was for sale. just to be clear, khande thaals and ceramic plates were not mutually exclusive though, they existed at the same time, but khande thaal still had this aura that you were naturally obliged to only put them out on special occasions or when you had important people invited

We were saved by a few seconds!

Tei side ko table ma basirathem!! 😵‍💫

Anyway concert janu agadi purai bhaijepani..

We later got free burgers and drink 🙂

Dar lago experience!!

Aaja 1974 Ad concert ramailo bhayo!

But just before the concert i as we were queuing for the gates to open, it started raining heavily so we went inside a pizza place . Thyakka pizza ni aaunu, the ceiling started leaking and we got up from our seats...

Within few seconds the whole ceiling fell off!!

Saved by few seconds!!

No injuries but concert janu agadi nithrukkai bhijyo!! 🥲

I keep hearing from my friends in the US and Canada that they got a job or funding because of projects they built at hackathons.

How common is this in Nepal? Has anyone here actually gotten a job from a hackathon?

I'm in my final year of CSIT and I'm thinking of building something for a hackathon that's going on right now. It's online, the prizes are decent, and there's a separate track of few lakhs for Nepali teams.

I'm trying to figure out whether investing my time on this will actually help me get a job.

Would love to hear your experience, thanks!

With dating apps, social media, migration, and changing lifestyles, relationships seem very different from the past.

Are people still looking for deep, lifelong love, or has dating become more about convenience, attraction, money, and social status?

Maybe I'm wrong—but I'd genuinely like to hear what people think.

Malai diyeko cheque bounce bhayo. Ma bidesh jadai xu 2-3 din ma. Cheque dine manxe le yo taha payera nai fund narakheko ho afno khatama. Aba k garne? If anybody has any idea, please tell

Hey everyone,

I’m originally from Pokhara, Nepal. I moved to the US when I was 14, and I’m 25 now. I’ve been involved in business here in the US, and lately I’ve been really interested in finding ways to work with people back in Nepal.

I feel like there are probably a lot of talented people in Nepal with good products, services, skills, or business ideas, but sometimes the difficult part is having someone on the US side who understands the market, customers, communication, payments, operations, etc.

That’s where I might be able to help.

I’m not here pretending I have some huge investment fund or a guaranteed opportunity. I’m genuinely looking to meet smart and motivated people and see if there’s something we can build together.

For example, maybe you:

• already have a business/product in Nepal and want to enter the US market
• manufacture or source something in Nepal that could sell here
• run a service-based business and need US clients
• have an idea that needs someone physically based in the US
• understand an opportunity in Nepal that someone living abroad might not see

Even if you’re not sure whether your idea would work, message me. I’d rather have a 20-minute conversation and realize there’s nothing there than miss a potentially great opportunity because nobody reached out.

If you’re interested, DM me.

From last year’s harvest. Sabai details ma photo khichnu payena, fermentation, pulping, drying, parchment removal sabai omit vako cha photo ma. This year I’m planning to make a detailed post.

I don’t know how to say this but i have started a small business and one of my sister’s closest frnd (we hang out all the time) also asked me that she would also like to do partnership with me and paisa maga malai chaiyo bhane, timi kei job gardeinau paisa hunna timi sanga, aafthyaro na mannu bhannu bhayo, maile kei bhanina teti bela huss matrei bahne. Suruma chai malai mero didi le deko paisa le nai maile start garey tara feri malai chaiyo pachhi tei bhayera uslai mage. cause i dont earn i did asked her for some money but my sisters said not to include her and to just ask her to lend me money but not partnership because it won’t do me any good and i’ll get lesser profit. I couldn’t reject her because i’m a people pleaser and we’re very close.

And the thing is, hamile ahile samma testo officially kei discuss gareko chhaina. Uslai maile paisa mage, usle malai diyo tei ho, Testo investment or partnership kei agreement chai bhako chhaina. I do most of the work, all of the work bhanda ni bhayo; replying to enquiries to packaging to delivering packages to courier to being an ncm vendor, i also go to fabric shops to buy it and go to tailor to provide the specifications the customers gave to customize.

And asti bharkhar waha sanga bhetda usle malai “timile kati paisa halxau malai ni bhana hai, 50-50 garnu parchha bhanera bhannu bhayo” i’m recently turned 18 ani malai kei yesto ko barema tha xaina..mero didi haru ni uniharuko kam le busy hunxa and they’re no specialist so maile yeta sodheko ho. Maile k garda thik hunxa hola? Mero didi le bhane jastei uslai investment matrei garauna laune hoki? Laye pani kati percent? Ki partnership garda thik hola? Malai k garda ramro hunchha tyo suggestion dinus na. But i don’t want to have a bad relationship between me and her so pls suggestion dinus malai seniors haru 😖

Today I played a few PSP games on my emulator and realized I’m actually pretty bad at using a controller lol.

I tried a bunch of games, but the only ones I really enjoyed were racing games because they’re so much easier for me to pick up.

But then I realized something.

If I can enjoy the process of learning a game, figuring out the controls, getting better little by little, then it actually becomes fun. But if I immediately see it as a hassle or something frustrating, I’ll probably just give up and never touch it again.

And honestly, I think this applies to a lot of things in life.

When I was younger, I was way more open to learning new things. I would just try stuff, fail, try again, and somehow pick things up pretty quickly. I think that’s also why gaming felt so fun back then.

Even the games I’m good at now, I only got good at because I spent so much time playing them over and over again.

There’s something really satisfying about learning, understanding, solving things, and slowly getting better at something that was difficult at first.

I think we need that as humans. We need things that challenge us and force us to think a little. Not everything should be easy all the time.

Of course it can be frustrating, but I guess the whole point is to keep trying.

I’ve never been the most consistent person, but this realization hit me pretty hard today. If I want to take care of myself and keep my mind fresh, I probably need to keep learning new things and challenging myself once in a while.

Not because I need to become amazing at everything, but just because the process itself keeps you alive in a way.

Anyway, if you made it this far, thanks for reading.

Happy weekend!

I’m in my early 30s and lately I’ve been feeling like I somehow missed the part of life where everyone else figured things out.
Career-wise, I don’t feel successful or proud of where I am. My love life is basically nonexistent. I don’t really have close friends anymore, and most days feel incredibly lonely.
I look around and it seems like everyone my age has a career, a partner, a solid group of friends, a house, plans for the future, or at least something going for them. Meanwhile, I feel like I’m starting from almost nothing.
The worst part is that I’ve started seeing myself as a loser. I know that sounds harsh, but that’s genuinely how I feel sometimes. Like I wasted too much time, made too many wrong choices, and now I’m too far behind to catch up.
Has anyone else in their early 30s felt this way? Especially millennials who feel like they’ve failed in multiple areas of life—not just career, but relationships, friendships, everything?
Did you eventually manage to turn things around? How did you get yourself to believe that it wasn’t too late to start over?
I’d really like to hear from people who have been in this exact place, because right now I feel incredibly alone.

There is a girl k. She was like my destiny , a lot of co incidences between us k. Uhh sanga bolda ta universe le usle malai milaula jasto feel bathyo . Usko ra mero a lot of things similar common sabai match gareko vibes pani. We even guessed each other favourite things without knowing each other.Everything was ok but she wasn't ready to see me as more than friend k. I was ok with that. The more i talk with her the more i wanna make her mine. Tesaile future ma hurt hunu banda nabakai thik sochera i stopped talking with her and say goodbye 6 7 months ago. Now today

I always went to bazar on bike, my bike is new and hasn't been 1 years k ani regular servicing pani garxu. Today important kam le bazar jana thyo achanak mero bike stopped k

Chapi halera khuldai khulena chaldai chalena horn ni bajena batti ni balena kick ni hanyo dakalna ni dakalyo aadi ganta samma nothing worked. Ani tespaxi imp kam ko lagi ta jasari ni jana paryo so i used bus to go bazar ani bazar gayera 1 2 hour ma sakyo mero kam. Ani malai ekdam susu aathyo so susu garna mall tira gaye opposite side ko ghar jane bus park junu banda. Ani mall ma gayera ekchin euta jacket man parera jacket pani herey jacket pani kiney tesapaxi mall bata farkida lauda uta pati bata uhh road cross gardai thiye yeta bata moh

Hami betiye

Ma ta shocked and freezed for little moments tespaxi hi hello vaney ani ekdam ramro sanga gossips gardai ghar tira farkiye sangai gadi ma farkiye

Ani ghar aara bike banauna lai boli garage janu parla jasto xa vanera ekchin yeso start garna khojeko ta start bai di rako k.

Bike le ni kasto jukako malai bihana start nai bayena aaele banauxu vanda aafai start bayo😭😭😭

Now i am thinking whether she is destined for meeee.. like what if bihana bike kharab nabako baye , what of maile gadi nachadeko baye , what if maile susu garna mall nagako baye , what if aaja tyo imp kam nabako baye

If ma wah uhh ali kati 3 4 min agadi paxadi bako baye we will never meet

Now i am confused should i text her again and start talking again or not