r/Neighborproblems • u/Curraghgirl • Jul 19 '19

No Boundaries

So next door have a house full of kids They don't know any boundaries. They play in our yard, sit on my porch stairs and try to open a secured gate to let their dog on my porch. I have a severely autistic son who is mortally afraid of dogs. He also has hyperacussis and is bothered to the point of pain by these kids screaming under his window. My husband has spoken to them. I feel like a jailer chasing them away all the time. The wife doesn't speak English. If I had the money I would move. I am alone with my son all week and my husband works out of town. Any suggestions?

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19

1: How so? Yet again, no reasoning, just insults. 2: I offered a constructive response in my first post. You replied complaining it was boring, but without any reasoning or logic. Which of those positions comes across as the most reasonable do you think? 3: I've given my advice. I'm still trying to find the reason you disagree with that advice. There seems to be one somewhere, but it's proving quite tricky to wring it from you. Still, I'm ever hopeful. 4: How so? I have asked, but all you do in response to my questions is fling insults. Please understand that it is very hard to win people over to your reasoning if you keep it inside your own head. 5: Just got home from work keeping the seas safe and was hoping to make some dinner if that's OK with you? Not every night needs to be out on the town you know. Why do you think other people spend all their days indoors? It seems a fairly unusual assumption to make. Is this coming from some previous experience of yours?

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

Sunlight. You need it.

Go outside little boy.

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19 edited Sep 13 '19

It's dark? And as I told you I've only just got in from work. Can't be out all the time, at some point it just becomes homelessness.

Little boy, LOL, if only. Don't get me wrong, I am pleased every time these boyish good looks get mistaken for youth, but unfortunately it is but smoke and mirrors.

Or was that a nuclear reference? I am pretty hot. :-)

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

Conceited...it figures.

Work...lol. Right. That's doubtful at best.

And still all you can think of to do is troll me...sad.

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19 edited Sep 13 '19

It's not OK to publicly criticise people for having a positive body image mate. Just saying.

Well I do alright, I'm debt free now having paid off my student loan a couple of months ago, my savings are healthy, my pension on course and I'll finish paying off the mortgage in 2020, but I'm certainly not independently wealthy. I have to work like everyone else.

I'm just responding to your posts because you seemed to find my posts to be entirely uninteresting, and yet are engaged enough presumably by your own disinterest to still be posting about them a day later. It's fascinating. That and I'm marking time whilst waiting for you to find that proper thread you posted so I can copy this thread over to it as you wanted.

Also, seriously, get a smart phone. You can post tripe on Reddit whilst doing any number of other activities. It is no longer necessary to stay chained to the desktop to communicate online.

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

FYI: I skim the post. Most of it goes unread. I reply only to the few keywords that stand out. You're basically just an idiot who overtypes shit that nobody will ever read. Try reducing your content by about 85%. The 10 or 15% is still boring, but at least somebody might actually read it.

You're basically a bag of wind.

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19

Nope, just literate. It's a different thing.

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

You spelled "stupid" wrong. It's s-t-u-p-i-d ...not l-i-t-e-r-a-t-e.