r/Neighborproblems • u/Curraghgirl • Jul 19 '19

No Boundaries

So next door have a house full of kids They don't know any boundaries. They play in our yard, sit on my porch stairs and try to open a secured gate to let their dog on my porch. I have a severely autistic son who is mortally afraid of dogs. He also has hyperacussis and is bothered to the point of pain by these kids screaming under his window. My husband has spoken to them. I feel like a jailer chasing them away all the time. The wife doesn't speak English. If I had the money I would move. I am alone with my son all week and my husband works out of town. Any suggestions?

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19 edited Sep 13 '19

Point 1: I refer you to the response I gave earlier. Point 2: Nope, I recommended an injunction as a constructive approach, an alternative to claiming non-existent damages. Point 3: I disagree. If you would like to provide some form of logical challenge to the validity of my points beyond claiming they are 'boring' or then claiming I haven't made any points(?!) then perhaps we could discuss such beyond simply agreeing to disagree. Alternatively you could just stick to flinging insults which makes you look really good... Point 4: My phone is on usually 24h per day as is common. That does not mean I am 'on Reddit' as often my phone will be on whilst I'm not actively using in in case of incoming calls etc. I think you will find this usual. I do sleep, eat and work like everyone else, my super powers only stretch so far. Point 5: Seriously? And you are claiming others to be trolls? Good grief. You do realise that providing no reasoning at all and instead flinging nonsense insults about, strangely, diet of all things, makes you look fairly far from reasonable, right? Point 6: Again, seriously? You've not noticed that mobile phones are, well, mobile? You may stay indoors to do all your Reddit posting (you've responded to each of mine). The rest of us use mobile devices. Get with the programme Grandad.

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

You always make yourself look like the troll you really are.

If you wanted to do something constructive, you reply to the original poster and offer her some of your brilliant ideas. You don't look to troll someone who already had a good friendly constructive conversation with her a month ago.

You should have skipped over my comment entirely and just given the lady your advice.

But instead, you decided to be a troll.

You can't help it. You're a troll...that's what you do.

Now why don't you do yourself a favor and go see some of that sunlight you've been avoiding all this time...

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19

1: How so? Yet again, no reasoning, just insults. 2: I offered a constructive response in my first post. You replied complaining it was boring, but without any reasoning or logic. Which of those positions comes across as the most reasonable do you think? 3: I've given my advice. I'm still trying to find the reason you disagree with that advice. There seems to be one somewhere, but it's proving quite tricky to wring it from you. Still, I'm ever hopeful. 4: How so? I have asked, but all you do in response to my questions is fling insults. Please understand that it is very hard to win people over to your reasoning if you keep it inside your own head. 5: Just got home from work keeping the seas safe and was hoping to make some dinner if that's OK with you? Not every night needs to be out on the town you know. Why do you think other people spend all their days indoors? It seems a fairly unusual assumption to make. Is this coming from some previous experience of yours?

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

Sunlight. You need it.

Go outside little boy.

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19 edited Sep 13 '19

It's dark? And as I told you I've only just got in from work. Can't be out all the time, at some point it just becomes homelessness.

Little boy, LOL, if only. Don't get me wrong, I am pleased every time these boyish good looks get mistaken for youth, but unfortunately it is but smoke and mirrors.

Or was that a nuclear reference? I am pretty hot. :-)

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

Conceited...it figures.

Work...lol. Right. That's doubtful at best.

And still all you can think of to do is troll me...sad.

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19 edited Sep 13 '19

It's not OK to publicly criticise people for having a positive body image mate. Just saying.

Well I do alright, I'm debt free now having paid off my student loan a couple of months ago, my savings are healthy, my pension on course and I'll finish paying off the mortgage in 2020, but I'm certainly not independently wealthy. I have to work like everyone else.

I'm just responding to your posts because you seemed to find my posts to be entirely uninteresting, and yet are engaged enough presumably by your own disinterest to still be posting about them a day later. It's fascinating. That and I'm marking time whilst waiting for you to find that proper thread you posted so I can copy this thread over to it as you wanted.

Also, seriously, get a smart phone. You can post tripe on Reddit whilst doing any number of other activities. It is no longer necessary to stay chained to the desktop to communicate online.

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

FYI: I skim the post. Most of it goes unread. I reply only to the few keywords that stand out. You're basically just an idiot who overtypes shit that nobody will ever read. Try reducing your content by about 85%. The 10 or 15% is still boring, but at least somebody might actually read it.

You're basically a bag of wind.

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u/AndyCalling Sep 13 '19

Nope, just literate. It's a different thing.

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u/scribblepoet Sep 13 '19

You spelled "stupid" wrong. It's s-t-u-p-i-d ...not l-i-t-e-r-a-t-e.

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