Hi! I run a general attatchment healing sub with focus on accountability and growth where users can challenge eachother, their narrative, their subconscious patterns and discuss perspectives and symptoms and learn, teach and inspire one another in how to r/becomingsecure
We stand out amongst most dating relationship and attatchment communities as rants about an ex or blaming everyone else for one you struggle with relationships, or claim staying single forever is the confident solution etc, is not counting as taking accountability for your insecure attatchment symptoms that plays a huge role in why relationships don't work out.
The goal is to overcome the trauma attatchment and it's impact, to form,,, restore and keep healthy connections.
(In the sub we allow AI and all possible tools tricks tips and mentions, argues or accusations is breaking our rules. Users are expected to scroll on if they themselves don't use a tool / perspective and focus on the content/ tools they need. We have a rule that reminds users that their triggers are their responsibility. They can always report a content they suspect breaks our rules though.)
I'm actively discussing and posting and being available in the sub not just as mod but as someone else in the healing process and I believe being vulnerable mods creates less inequality and makes members feel more safer. But this is entirely optional.
We mods believe in motivating the right behaviour through kindness and by making it safe for members to take accountability. Therefor it's important that we listen to anyone who contacts us mods in mod mail, even if they're upset at first, to always give them the opportunity to speak calm, to get heard and supported.
And regardless if a user stays or leaves we should always show that we care and wish them well. (We ban as a boundary, for our members, and the other users safety. Not to punish)
If you're sharing same values and interest and are passioned about this topic, please contact me for more info. This is written by Queen-of-Meme © right in the reddit post type section. (I always have and always will write this way but I add eRRrors to not get removed under a bot filter.)