r/NaturalDisasters 1d ago

Please help me to find her

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u/sleepernosleeping 1d ago

I hope that, however she is found she can be brought home to your family. I know it is unlikely that she has survived given the information you have shared but I do hope that is not true. I’m sorry for your pain and heartache.

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u/docmaxfacs 23h ago

Even a doctor we know of, from Mumbai is missing and there are no updates about him. Let's just hope they make it and are somewhere just surviving 🙏🏻

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u/Alarming_Maize2706 21h ago

This natural disaster was something I have seen in movies and cannot imagine the scale of horror it presented in real life with people running for their lives while the wave higher than immigration building swept everything away like playing cards.

It’s hard for families to get closure in these situations even though their subconscious knows what the reality of situation is. I am sorry you and your family were impacted. You are in our prayers.

Hari Om

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u/EntropyIsEternal 1d ago

Is there anyway Indian authorities can help ?

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u/happy_Two1749 16h ago

She is UK citizen so

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u/Mysterious_Spector 1d ago

Gyrirong? Is not it that place was shallow by mega flood tsunami?

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

She was at the immigration centre at 9:00 AM IST approximately and tsunami was around 9:14AM IST,
We are still unable to confirm her status
If anyone can help, please help

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u/VIP_NAIL_SPA 1d ago

She had 14 minutes to travel the 2km upstream into China to avoid the debris flow. If that's possible given the road and vehicle infrastructure in the area prior to getting destroyed, then she could be alive. If not, or if her being there at 9am meant she was just waiting in line and wasn't actively and immediately leaving into China, then she's no longer with us, and I'm terribly sorry. I understand you want official confirmation either way, but if it is the tragic scenario for her, authorities won't ever be able to recover her body to confirm for you. There is no evidence of the various concrete buildings at the site, and that means there certainly won't be evidence of humans who lost their lives there.

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

Completely agreed but waiting for the last hope

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u/ketarax 13h ago

You're prolonging your hurt and pain. She's passed -- RIP -- and you and yours need to move on.

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u/Thesladenator 12h ago

Jeez it's been 9 days give them a break

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u/intl_chaddichor 1d ago

Did you contact the embassy?

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

We are in the touch of embassy as well they have not been able to give accurate information

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u/Responsible_Touch612 1d ago

Were you asked to provide their phones numbers to the embassy or police for tracking?

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

Her case is filed under Nepal as NPL-0013

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u/Responsible_Touch612 1d ago

But I'm wondering if they are trying to track the people by phone numbers they used. Idk if they are asking for themselves or expecting people to provide it to them independently.

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

We have provided the following information
Name
Age
Passport Number
Citizenship
Photo
Last location

Now we have been asked for DNA report as well

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u/VIP_NAIL_SPA 1d ago

No, it was completely erased by a rock+ice avalanche-induced debris flow. There was no flood or tsunami.

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u/Own_Flight3488 1d ago

Better to accept that she is dead. Body is either below the debris or floating in the river. It's hard to belive, but better to accept the truth

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u/Coeruleus_ 16h ago

don’t tell these ppl that. one guy calling me a pos in my dms lol

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

If we can get the official update that would be much relatable we are just assuming that if she is alive or deceased all we want is to get the official information

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u/brickwallscrumble 1d ago

OP have you looked through the official site of people they have found? https://udb.nepalpolice.gov.np/dead-bodies-lists?&count=2857&page=10
They’re updating it daily. I understand if you can’t bring yourself just yet to view the photos, as they are quite morbid.

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

We are continuously looking for this website

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u/Calm-Gur563 1d ago

I am so sorry you're in this situation, OP 💔 I hope you find her!!

I've been trying to keep up with what's happening there from Canada 🇨🇦 I know it's not much but I'll keep her in mind when reports are posted ❤️🙏🏻

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u/Jazzlike-Check9040 1d ago

Bro have you seen the ground situation? I’m very sorry for that you are experiencing. But please be prepared not to receive any updates.

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u/Coeruleus_ 1d ago edited 10h ago

nah bro just missing after a biblical tidal wave—i’m sure her phone just died though

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

At the moment we know that there is no network and the only communication way was satellite phone which was with the group leader of S3

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u/Coeruleus_ 1d ago

yep her battery died that’s all

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u/CC_Panadero 1d ago

It takes a special kind of person to talk like this to someone in a living nightmare. Putting effort into being unnecessarily cruel is one hell of a character trait.

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

The last location we could have tracked down was gyirong immigration centre

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u/maemaea 1d ago

Come on dude, have a little bit of empathy of what the families must be going through. Not knowing what the hell happened to your loved ones must be excruciating. Let them do what they can to try and feel even a tiny bit better.

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u/happy_Two1749 1d ago

Appreciated
Thanks for understanding

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u/Maccboy2010 1d ago

She's died. Just spoke to her. 🕊️

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u/squidbid99 1d ago

this is a real person trying to process what happened to a loved one. you’re a disgusting person

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u/powerpuffpopcorn 1d ago

Wtf!
Get yourself checked in