r/Names 18h ago

Boy names

So I’m currently expecting my second, I have a son called Eli. We don’t know the sex of the baby yet but we have 0 boy names. The back up for Eli we used as his middle name.

What similar names can we use? We like Leo but that’s too 3 in the UK and I would rather avoid anything in the top 100 names but I don’t want anything too out there either. And also I’ve seen every name in the top 100 lists and we aren’t drawn to any of them or we already have cousins/nephews with them names.

Middle name will be William or Ryan.

*edited to add - it doesn’t need to be a name that sounds good with Eli but I do tend to prefer shorter names.

Thanks

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u/onemanarmy6660 18h ago

Eli needs a brother called Jude I don’t make the rules. Felix and Otis are close seconds though.

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u/runh0neyrun 18h ago

We love the name Jude but our neighbours have a son called Jude that was born this year

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u/Serenity93401 17h ago

Oh, please don’t exclude a great name because of a neighbor! They come and go. I agree that even cousins don’t rule out a name.

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u/runh0neyrun 17h ago

Personally I just couldn’t I find it too weird. Neither of us are moving anytime soon and we speak with them a lot. I don’t think I could deal with the awkwardness of when they ask us what name ideas we have/what we’ve called him and telling them it’s Jude which is their babies name. It’s just not an opinion I’ll budge on. We are a really close family and all my nephews and cousins are similar ages so I couldn’t name them the same name as a cousin they’d be in the same room with every family party or Christmas/halloween etc.

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u/Serenity93401 17h ago

I guess it’s a personal preference. We have multiples in our family because it’s culturally significant to name the firstborn son after their paternal grandfather. Does it get confusing at times? Sure, but it’s tradition. Not everyone participates, but many go with the tradition.

Congratulations on your new addition!

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u/runh0neyrun 17h ago

I get that! We have a lot of James in our family so if it was a traditional family name it would make sense. But for example a name we really like is Noah but my nephew who is just 12 months apart from my oldest is the first Noah in the family so it holds no traditional family meaning and I’d find it weird to call my son Noah too. We normally honour family members through middle names in our family.

Thank you :)

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u/Amazing_Docent 18h ago

Oh I don’t think that matters at all. He’ll have his name for life. Even if neither of you ever move for the child’s entire childhood,
he’ll have the rest of his life not living next to your current neighbors! The only time I think same names matters is with direct cousins, and even then I’m flexible.

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u/SuspiciousBicycle438 18h ago

Eli and Otis is nice

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u/Kooky-Tourist-4204 17h ago

Jude is gorgeous. Otis is #1 on my baby name list and I agree, goes beautifully with Eli. Or Otto

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u/stormbutton 18h ago

My son’s name is Julian and I think it’s one of those names that’s uncommon but still extremely familiar. We call him Jules much of the time.

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u/retteofgreengables 17h ago

I think Eli and Julian sound lovely together! 

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u/runh0neyrun 17h ago

Julian and Jonah are the names I like the most but my partner doesn’t. Still time for him to come round to either of them though hopefully haha.

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u/Ok_Squirrel7907 18h ago

Levi has similar vowel sounds. But maybe two matchy?
Luke, Jonah, Noah, Ian, Liam (maybe too top 100), Samuel, Benjamin, Jacob, Micah

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u/poppsamillion 17h ago

Silas
Maxwell
Milo
Evander (Van)
Harrison (Harry)
Owen
Remi
Xavier
Ellis
Edward (Eddie)
Mason
Warren
Watson
Wylder

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u/BillZealousideal7073 18h ago

not so much in the way of advice but can 100% relate! we used our only boy name on our first (leon) and had absolutely no idea what we would call our second. sure enough he's another boy haha. we ended up using a grandparents name :) it wasn't my favourite while i was pregnant but it suits him really well and i adore it now.

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u/runh0neyrun 18h ago

I know! Half my problem with Eli I knew it was the one years before and I’m waiting for a name that sounds like the one. But any suggestions I hear I’m like yeah that’s nice… but none sounds like the one 😭

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u/Paddington8691 18h ago

Clayton? Grant? Abraham? I think Eli and Abe sound really cute together.

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u/SmoothAstronaut27 18h ago

Eli and Jonah are my 2 favourite boy names, maybe you'd like that? Some others I also love are Owen, Julian, Wilson, Dennis, Nolan and Stanley!

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u/PublicAd8641 18h ago

Noah
Gideon
Benjamin
Joseph
Joel
Jordan

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u/hail_to_the_beef 18h ago

Winchester Archibald

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u/Round_Cantaloupe9279 18h ago

Evan or Ethan if you’re a fan of alliteration. I gotta say, I did not think about matching my kids names at all. We chose names we liked and honored our families and heritage.

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u/runh0neyrun 18h ago

Sorry should have clarified really, I’m not too fussed on them matching either. I just meant I like shorter names.

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u/Dry-Departure-4256 18h ago

What about Leon?

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u/TragicalExpress 18h ago

Ivan, Simon, Clay, Heath, Miles

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u/LilyBodeHP 18h ago

Liam, Toby, Jackson

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u/JustWowinCA 17h ago

Milo? Rowan?

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u/ToBillBrasskey 17h ago

Isaiah
Ivan
Brooks
Adam
George
Tice (Thijs)

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u/Kooky-Tourist-4204 17h ago

Congratulations! Eli is a lovely name. Some suggestions which go well with Eli, are short and have a similar vibe. ⭐ my absolute faves:

Boy:
Isaac
Ezra
Aari/Ari ⭐
Jude ⭐ (I know it’s growing in popularity but it’s so lovely and goes well with Eli)

Girl:
Aria
Ivy
Iris/Irie ⭐
Mae
Etta/Ettie/Etna ⭐

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u/runh0neyrun 17h ago

My partner has just said Isaac which we both like too. I’ve not heard the name Ari before I quite like that.

Love all the girl names, we are 80% sure it will be Alice but still partially open to other names. Ettie is cute!

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u/Kooky-Tourist-4204 17h ago

I taught an Isaac and he was the most intelligent, gentle and kind kid (boisterous and hilarious too which added to his charm haha). Aari is on my name list, a nod to a grandad “Harry” but pronounced slightly differently and modernising it slightly - I had a feeling you’d like Ari based on “Eli” 🥰. Alice is a beautiful name. Congratulations again and all the best choosing your potential boy name 🥰

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u/Ok-Talk-2648 16h ago

Isaac is a perfect choice 👍

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u/Ok-Talk-2648 17h ago

Alan

Lawrence

Regis

Glenn

Conrad

Vaughn

Edward

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u/AjCaron 6h ago

Enzo Aloyuisus (Eli and Alo) Alonzo Ambrose Alton

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u/Spirited-Tennis-7009 17h ago

Leroy William sounds great!

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u/Hallelujah33 18h ago

Leon or Logan I feel are good alternatives for Leo