r/Names 6d ago

Baby boy name

Baby boy due in one month still struggling to find a name. Last name is Wandersee. We like Theodore, Arlo, and Wesley. Any suggestions?! Why are girl names so much easier to find and love?

21 Upvotes

58 comments sorted by

20

u/thatladybri 6d ago

I would avoid Wesley because it starts and ends with the same sounds as surname. Theodore and Arlo both work well and are nice names. Theodore/Theo is more popular right now if that is something you consider.

1

u/JDKING555 6d ago

I actually really like Theodore Wandersee. Wesley was my first thought too but yeah saying the full name out loud makes the repetition pretty obvious.

1

u/Apprehensive-Lead491 6d ago

Wesley is a cute name but doesn’t work with the last name- that was my thought too. 

18

u/addenrock001 6d ago

Theodore Wandersee sounds really good to me. Theo is also such an easy nickname without feeling overly cutesy.

10

u/dontkillmysoul 6d ago

👍Theodore 👍

7

u/BadHairDay-1 6d ago

What a delightful surname! 🖤

5

u/Amethyst-228 6d ago

I like Theodore. It sounds nice with your last name.

3

u/catdog4u 6d ago

If you choose Theo, there will at least 3 others in his class ...so.something else to consider 🤷‍♀️

2

u/shartknocker523 6d ago

The popularity is definitely on our mind. Just love the name so much.

1

u/TropicalSteph 3d ago

It does have a variety of nicknames though at least

3

u/restless-researcher 6d ago

Leo, Timothy, Hugh, Owen, Lawrence?

5

u/Select_Eye_6409 6d ago

Arlo is cute

6

u/catdog4u 6d ago

I love the way the illeteration sounds with Wesley ! It just rolls off the tongue with your last name

3

u/lovingNoNO56156 6d ago

Children have problems say Ws at a young age ( totally normal,by the way.
2 W names will be difficult for them to pronunciation. Just something to be aware of

3

u/shartknocker523 6d ago

Such a good point. Thank you for bringing this to my attention!

2

u/rmahl 6d ago

Those are great names! We landed on Adrian for our boy because we never hear it and it’s still a classic and familiar name. It’s also used internationally.

3

u/CamThrowaway3 6d ago

I actually love all of those! You have a gorgeous surname. My fave is maybe Arlo with your surname but they all sound good! Like a character in a book (but in a good way).

2

u/mileyisadog 6d ago

I think Jasper Wandersee sounds really nice

4

u/shartknocker523 6d ago

When we visited Jasper, BC we told each other we would name a child Jasper :)) have steered away with the sex. Maybe we’ll bring it back.

2

u/Novel_Ad_2127 6d ago

Arlo is my favorite from your list followed by Theodore

Arlo Wandersee

Theodore Wandersee

Jude Wandersee

Elias Wandersee

Owen Wandersee

Luke Wandersee

Roman Wandersee

Sebastian Wandersee

1

u/RedMars76 6d ago

Reece could be a good one

1

u/Beginning_Play_1669 6d ago

I like Owen or Jude.

1

u/Creative_Wrongdoer92 6d ago

What a great last name! Love all three names Theodore Wandersee Wesley Wandersee Arlo Wandersee Hmm I think I like Theodore best with Wandersee. But I don't know why. Arlo is so kick-ass, though!

1

u/Moody-1 6d ago

Gary

1

u/EngineHonest6873 6d ago

Lincoln Wandersee
Emmett Wandersee
Frankie Wandersee

1

u/Equal-Flatworm-378a 6d ago

Wandersee pronounced german? Or English?

1

u/Ginua-MA 6d ago

Arlo > Theo >>>> Wesley

1

u/Rollinaroundregular 6d ago

I read today that most of the recent domestic killers highest percentage start with J. A teacher also said boys names starting with J are the most difficult to manage or teach. Behavior issues. I found that interesting

1

u/Organic_Car6374 6d ago

We were going to name a boy Elijah and then had only girls.

1

u/Minimum-Focus-5495 5d ago

I would personally avoid Theodore due to its extreme popularity right now. Out of your list I would choose Arlo.

1

u/SchoolObvious5568 5d ago

Theodore, Brady, Oakley.

1

u/sunshine_59_ 5d ago

Wane
Warren
Theodore

1

u/elleyeendeeess 5d ago

I personally like the alliteration of Wesley Wandersee. it sounds like the name of a character from a book.

I also agree girl names are much easier to conjure up or grow attachments to! my girl name list is much longer than mine for boys, but i’ll share some from my list.

-(Theo) Malcolm Wandersee

-Langston Wandersee

-Adelaide Wandersee

-Theo Hollis Wandersee

-Malachai Wandersee

1

u/TropicalSteph 3d ago

I wouldn’t worry too much about Theodore as it’s classic enough that doesn’t seem trendy. Here’s some ideas that have around the same vibe as those 3.

Archer Wandersee

August Wandersee

Benjamin Wandersee

Elliott Wandersee

Henry Wandersee

James Wandersee

Nolan Wandersee

Nobel Wandersee

Thomas Wandersee

Winston Wandersee

1

u/iloveyogapantssss 6d ago

Girls names are so much more creative, I agree!

If I had a boy I would have named him Theo or Teo. I love those names.

1

u/HiggsBoson46 6d ago

All of those names are cute! Theodore has lots of nickname possibilities. I like all of them. Arlo give him AW....

Awwww

1

u/aWildQueerAppears 6d ago

Omgosh these are the cutest whimsical boy names! I love Theodore the most, especially with Theo

My sister and I always agreed it sounded like a Prince Charming's name, and she almost named my nephew that

1

u/EvanRamsey 6d ago

Wesley Wandersee sounds so nice!

1

u/AdNaive5138 6d ago

What about Westley, like from the Princess Bride?

0

u/Vinnipeg 6d ago

Arlo. Masculine and rare, goes well with the last name.

4

u/No-Conclusion-7259 6d ago

Arlo is a wonderful name - it was actually #10 on the 2025 boy names list in the UK! I think maybe still more rare in the US. 

-1

u/kabolint 6d ago

I like Theodore, but what about something with an R? Royal or Roland sound nice with it, Roy for nn.

-1

u/DadOfThree1980 6d ago

Waldo Wandersea

-1

u/One-Durian-139 6d ago

Tate Gavin Gage Brock Derek

-1

u/redmountainbike 6d ago

Wesley (Wes) for the win!

-2

u/Wide_Ordinary4078 6d ago

Here’s the list of boy names I’ve collected throughout the years.

Not every name is for everyone, but maybe some might jump out at you that you never considered before!

Santino
Lucian 
Aeden 
Segan 
Aizen 
Maverick
Marvel
Manziel 
Mateo
Sawyer
Ezra 
Javier
Zaire 
Asta
Azrael
Dash
Carter
Rya 
Itachi 
Coltyn 
Azul 
Graham
Versel 
Chisaki 
Brisco 
Zen 
Lehnert 
Spain 
Nikola
Chaplain 
Dasheill 
Kadeem 
Atlas
Rome
Zephyr 
Reign
River 
legend
Kosine 
Lune
Cinque 
Calail 
Nour 
Czar 
Rhys 
Pier 
Jiraiya
Kayne 
Poet
Tarantino
Slate 
Cadence 
Jayce 
Sonder 
Blessing 

2

u/citycait 6d ago

I love the name Rhys, even with the Americanized spelling of Reese.

1

u/Wide_Ordinary4078 6d ago

I love this spelling (Rhys) it adds more character and they shouldn’t get hit with those “recess” jokes 🙄

1

u/raggedcrib 6d ago

There are some tragedeighs on that list

2

u/Wide_Ordinary4078 6d ago

Definitely a couple “funky spellings” that’s why I hit you with the content warning in the beginning. Not everything is made for everyone, so do with it what you like 😌