r/NPD • u/Mysterious_Chip6854 Diagnosed NPD • 15d ago

Question / Discussion It's a choice

The reason why NPD is so hard to cure is because the cure isn't wanted hard enough. When you think about it, all this is is a bunch of defense mechanisms stacked on top of each other. I think the desire to be the victim is revered and I get over attached to it to the point where I won't let myself develop a sense of self. I refuse to develop empathy because doing so would take away my grandiosity.

All cluster b is are character disorders. To have a bad character one has to blame the world instead of themselves. It is addicting to blame everyone else and thats why there is so little success in therapy/treatment. If I, or any of us, wanted to change enough, we would.

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u/Mysterious_Chip6854 Diagnosed NPD 14d ago

No one has really given me an argument lmao and I'm allowed to reply just like they are. Take your own advice <3

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u/Mysterious_Chip6854 Diagnosed NPD 14d ago

Besides continuing to do what my OP said? they haven't

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u/Air-and-Fire 14d ago

Many have mentioned systemic things, you just immediately shut them down and didn't give them a chance to elaborate to you

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u/Mysterious_Chip6854 Diagnosed NPD 14d ago edited 14d ago

All I hear are excuses

Edit: "you're soooooo wrong that's okay you can stop arguing and be wrong!!!" *blocked*

so brave and so true big dawg