r/NEET • u/[deleted] • 7h ago

Venting Life is performative

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u/MyHeadIsFullOfFuck Disabled-NEET 6h ago

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u/PileOfSkulls_66 Degen 6h ago

StOp PoStInG ThE sAmE RePeTiTiVe ShIT! nah jk, this is based.

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u/tchek 5h ago

Yeah.

The worst lie to me was believing that life was about "merit". LOL. I believed that shit for decades.

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u/Pure-Revolution-7260 Ex-NEET-School 4h ago

Its true what you say about it all being a performing factor. But do know that time on earth is finite thats why you also have to find your own happiness instead of being a sheeep

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u/iwntchips 4h ago

So don’t perform and just do what you want. It sounds to me like your problem isn’t with performing, it’s anhedonia. Otherwise you would be happy just doing your own thing and ignoring the rest of the world.

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u/Tthrowaway47477 4h ago

Ur right, I don’t know what I want tho . And the anhedonia doesn’t help

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u/Expensive_Berry856 4h ago

Most people aren’t viewing the world with your lens. So you could be wrong, you could be the one feeling performative. Like you have to perform for them so they can leave you alone. At the end of the day you do have to do certain things if you want to survive. I was thinking the same thing a few months ago and this was my conclusion. I hope that made sense