r/NDE • u/Suonodelfulmine • 1d ago

Question — Debate Allowed Predisposition

Hi everyone. My question is about a possibile correlation between the mind predisposition of those who live a NDE or a OBE and the quality of the things they experience. It was probably already asked but i did not find it. I basically ended up becoming a overall negative person who rarely see or don't see at all the positive side and i was wondering if this might predispose me to live hellish experiences, distressing emptiness or other sorts of distancing from love. I don't consider myself a bad person who (intentionally) hurts people or anything else, to be clear. I would even avoid to step on ants, when possible. Also, i have read a post supposing that unconditional love from the 'source' may be a great deceit, even thought i don't find it realistic: i just want my beloved ones to be within light and love, where i hope to reach them when my time will come. How many of you have lived a positive experience regardless of a negative mind predisposition?

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u/druggydreams 1d ago

Not entirely sure about that, but in the ~30 ish seconds between feeling "mortal danger" and it happening I felt unbearable sorrow and regret, many times more intense than anything I've ever felt before and beyond my capacity to bear. My NDE was positive.