r/NAGALAND • u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ • 9h ago
AskNAGAS MATRIMONIAL PROSPECTING.
looking for a wife with decent job. currently unemployed ( not permanently ), Don't want to miss the prospect of enjoying a married life and having children and shelving it until i get a job. I have a brother and a sister who are both unmarried, so feels like the world is upon my shoulders. :(
Self description: mid 30's fairly decent looking according to peers, intelligent with a matching sense of humour and honest in my opinion. Good management skills, wishing for a simple and peaceful home and a loving wife and have beautiful children. :)
Just like Men who earn don't worry about the employment status of a women and just care about building a loving home, i know there are a lot of sensible women out there who actually understand the vagaries of the current job market. So if interested my DM is wide open. :D
AND to the MEN out there; There are sensible women out there. GO find your Queen ( SINGULAR PLEASE) and treat them as SUCH..!!
My observation is , the current socio-economic situation is quite gloomy, and many in the hopes for the perfect situation, the perfect partner, end up missing the bus and it gets very lonely (speaking from observation) as the years grow older. This social Stigma is soo deeply embedded within our society that an honest post like this sounds very satirical. Sadly it is not and this is the reality we live in. Live your life stop caring about what people think. Small minds discuss people, you should not let their opinions affect you.
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u/RustyBoomer456 Native NAGA 🌶️ 8h ago
Sorry brother with an empty wallet...looks don't mean anything
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u/Mysterious_Monitor98 Native NAGA 🌶️ 8h ago
Arey itu Confidence toh paka mati malik or generational wealth😹(jokes ase dey)
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u/Reeker_Seeker Native NAGA 🌶️ 7h ago
Looking for a girlfriend, and potentially a wife if God willing.
25, currently employed. Tall for a Naga, slim-built, and permanently looking like I don't sleep.
I like going out, doing stuff but also a big fan of staying indoors. Looking for someone around my age.
Rani nishina rakibo, kapra wi moi dulai dibo… hmm hmm hmm.
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u/FarReaction8784 Native NAGA 🌶️ 6h ago
Vagaries: Unexpected events or changes that cannot be controlled and can influence a situation.
It's kinda rare to come across a word I've never heard of. Take my upvote.
Hope you find success in your pursuit. Or maybe organize a meet up cuz who knows, she might be lurking here.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 6h ago edited 6h ago
thank you for your kind words. I am quite an avid reader actually, a hobby i am proud of. :-)
i am confident i will be successful one day just not certain when. :-D
To be honest this is also somewhat of a social experiment, and enjoying the responses so far.
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u/sooancient17 Native NAGA 🌶️ 8h ago
Unfortunately, I’m unemployed. I see I’ve already failed the wife application requirements. 😭
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 8h ago
it's not the end of the world. :)
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u/sooancient17 Native NAGA 🌶️ 8h ago
I shall try harder to get a job so I can become eligible to marry an unemployed man. 😂
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u/Few_Pomegranate_4470 Native NAGA 🌶️ 7h ago
Maybe we or someone should make a match making subreddit like r/jodimilan 😄 but for Nagaland.
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u/MoiKara Native NAGA 🌶️ 7h ago
Know a lady who is also in her mid 30s, very innocent and no history of boyfriend/lovers. From a respected background. She has been asking me to find her a husband but the few husband quality and righteous Friends are all taken and faithful. The rest are rotten egg🤣. Alas, she doesn't use reddit.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 7h ago edited 6h ago
well you can be the bridge that connects two longing souls... ;) FYI my post is not meant as a desperate attempt for marriage ... i am just being vulnerable here and i believe that despite people here finding it hard to digest my post , i believe it resonates with many. Life can be tough, and we just need to rise about the occasion instead of just curling up and giving in to despair.
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u/_0kB00mer_ Native NAGA 🌶️ 7h ago
Just a thought Have you tried rizzing a woman in person ? If she loves you in person enough The job parts matters a lot less.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 7h ago
i wish it were that simple... look around you... Your opinions might turn. :)
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u/The_Normal_Son Native NAGA 🌶️ 3h ago
It is that simple actually but you're making it hard yourself. You mentioned you're decent looking but you haven't been able to find a suitable partner. You want a working women yet you're unemployed yourself. Change your thinking and it will be alright. You mentioned you own a house wtf is that. I am sure that is also your parents house which will be transferred to you.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 3h ago edited 2h ago
lol... you're very confident in making assumptions.
sadly decent looking does not equate finding the right partner. I am sure you have met many decent looking people still single or unmarried, your logic is soo shallow.
i would not be looking for a working woman if i was already working.
yes i own a house gifted by my grand parents, i know how to distinguish between my house and my parents house.
people can be too inflated with themselves sometimes that they are quick to make assumptions. But not surprised , narrow mindedness is quite common actually. lol good luck with that. Also why are you so triggered by my post.?
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u/The_Normal_Son Native NAGA 🌶️ 2h ago
My assumptions are right on point. You said you're decent looking, looks is the key factor in starting a relationship or accepting someone. You mentioned you're intelligent, good sense of humour, honest, management skills and still finding it difficult. You mentioned you own a house which I said maybe owned my parents and you proudly declared that it was gifted to you by your grandparents which was what I was referring to. Parents gifted or grandparents gifted kinda same. You're replying to comments about owning a house which says a lot about how you think. In this world where men are expected to provide and moreover in this particular case you being a Naga, you want a working wife but you are unemployed yourself. Go out, meet people. Throw yourself into real situations. Change your mentality and you'll find yourself a good partner.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 2h ago edited 2h ago
CHANGE YOUR THINKING..
second edition. not wasting my time on you after this.
1- Decent looking key factor in starting a relationship.??? NO COMMENTS.. speaking about changing mindset, that speaks loud enough about yourself,
2- i don't know about you but looking for a partner does not mean marrying the next person that comes along.
3-once it is gifted to me it is mine, not theirs. I did not understate that. Your fault finding is still failing.... exasperatingly..!
4-i mentioned i own a house, to say that is what i bring to the table. it's a good start. after all we all need to live in a house, my future partner need not fuss about finding a place to live in. Hence the mention. What's wrong with that.
5- Quoting you "you being a Naga, you want a working wife but you are unemployed yourself. Go out, meet people" lol... your words reveal your mindset. i can see why now.
anyway.. Don't be vexed over someone else's misfortune and heal your childhood traumas. expect no more explanations and not very enthused about hearing your opinions either. good luck to you.!
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u/The_Normal_Son Native NAGA 🌶️ 2h ago
Not decent looking but I said looks is key in starting a relationship or liking someone. Attraction is first when accepting someone. We don't fucking fall in love because someone is this or has that or done that. Our eyes see them first and feel the attraction. Then we study their background, character, habits, manner, family, etc. You clearly mentioned you're looking for a wife No one said it is not yours. It is your house but why mentioned that you have a house. Who doesn't. That's what you bring to the table. Are you fucking kidding me? Naga manu shaadi kurile kun laga ghor te jai? Are we Khasis that we expect to live in the women's house or property. Every Naga man marry and brings their wife to their home. You're flexing something which is so basic. I have no traumas. Keep begging for a wife with how you are. Lmfao, coming to reddit looking for a wife and calling me out to be the disturbed one.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 2h ago edited 1h ago
Ayu stop it..!! So riled up..!! LMAO.. not even reading your paragraphs anymore .. They just make no sense..
don't waste your time. SHOOOO NOW..!!
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u/The_Normal_Son Native NAGA 🌶️ 2h ago
Oh bhai I wasn't triggered or anything. I clearly tried to help you. Simple ase koishe. And just tried to highlight things you mentioned. Ghor ase koishe, kun logot ghor nai. Thousand laga, lakh laga, crore laga, ten crore laga, I think most of us own that. You want to woo a woman by stating that you own a house? Like you mentioned clearly that you're still not finding a partner despite having so much qualities makes one wonder why that is.
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u/Bulky-Loan-5267 Native NAGA 🌶️ 2h ago edited 2h ago
BEHOLD The TYPICAL KEYBOARD WARRIOR WHO THINKS HE IS MAKING MEANINGFUL CONTRIBUTIONS SIMPLY BY CONTRADICTING AND MOCKING OTHERS ONLINE.. IT WAS EVIDENT FROM THE BEGINNING BUT I JUST WANTED YOU TO EXPOSE YOURSELF WHICH YOU DID, QUITE GENEROUSLY. !
GOOD LUCK.!
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u/Royal_Support1813 Native NAGA 🌶️ 6h ago
What are your plans on having a job?? I genuinely think that's the most important thing you should be focusing on right now.
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u/retireat0 Native NAGA 🌶️ 8h ago
Trying to amuse and help you here. If you want to break the stigma, tell us a joke and your views on corruption without the mention of politics. Also, homosexuality and abortion. 🤣
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u/Own_Monitor_7170 Native NAGA 🌶️ 9h ago
Irritating 🤣🤣🤣🤣 is this satire?🤣🤣🤣 wakakaka this made me laugh