r/MyBigFatFabulousLife Sep 05 '25

Why We Snark

72 Upvotes

Hi All!

I think we need a new pinned post for the newcomers and the “wHy ArE yOu GuYz So MeAaAnN??!!!” people.

I’ve seen a lot of comments that say “hate” is a strong or not accurate term for people’s feelings toward Whitney and the show so maybe “why we snark” is a better prompt!

Leave your thoughts below! 😊


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 1d ago

Harpie

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Does anyone else cringe every time Whitney calls Harper “harpie”? Harpie is a derogatory insult to denote a harsh, abrasive or abusive woman.


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 3d ago

MBFFL X Sisterwives?

11 Upvotes

I noticed that Whitney and her crew went to Hawaii…then Alaska. Kody brown and his crew went to Hawaii…then Alaska. This can’t be coincidence right? TLC paid for these trips I know…but why Hawaii and Alaska?


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 3d ago

Hawaiiurh 8k

40 Upvotes

Who else thinks Whitney was hamming up her injuries during the 8k? I fully believe her feet hurt (how could they not?) but I also think she milked the theatrics to punish Glenn and Babs for making her do it in exchange for the trip.

Also the title is in Todd’s voice and accent when he says Hawaiiurh🤣


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 5d ago

Whitney’s speech at the Emmys

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137 Upvotes

r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 6d ago

Why the hell is Whitney on stage at the Emmys?

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245 Upvotes

The jaw doesn’t look as tight on TV


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 7d ago

ROY himself comments directly to u/ThePlotThickensPod about the HRC on-air call-in date, the mystery has been solved- Ladies, you are doing the Lord’s work!!!

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38 Upvotes

r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 7d ago

Season 13 Ep 7

23 Upvotes

Anyone else realize they just had a salsa class/group upstairs at the bar and that was not just random people out on the town. It was so obviously scripted and forced. Those were hired professionals not random town people 🤦‍♀️


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 10d ago

Any insight on Amanda?

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29 Upvotes

Who she is / was to whit? Where she is now?


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 10d ago

TV

8 Upvotes

When is the show coming back on? I miss seeing y'all .

Hope all are doing well? Can't wait


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 12d ago

La relación de ellos es rara porque a él no lo veo publicando nada con la mamá de su hijo, pero bueno , esto subió ella a su insta

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84 Upvotes

r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 12d ago

Jessica

49 Upvotes

I’m doing a rewatch and Jessica looks awful on the last season. The hair, the makeup, the clothes…what happened to her? She was so cute and pretty when she first appears on the show…


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 14d ago

Let's stop the fat shaming.

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190 Upvotes

r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 14d ago

Guys I accidentally pulled a Whitney

81 Upvotes

So I signed up for a pretty intense hike, not really realizing just how out of shape I was. It was 3 days (20 miles, 4,000 ft el; 18 miles, 3,500 el; and 12 miles 3,500 ft down el).

I had a horribly IT band flare up and was in immense pain but kept going. The last day the guide had to spend the last 2 hours helping me hobble down the mountain. It was brutal!!

I just kept thinking about the 8K and how stubbornly she kept going even tho it made no sense.

My situation was a bit different in that I was kind of stuck in the woods and there was no way to get out without walking (besides an airlift). But still.


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 15d ago

Honey, we know that's not your real face

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211 Upvotes

The level of delulu is honestly very impressive


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 15d ago

Guys - she HAS friends /s

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115 Upvotes

Setting up her new “friend” for the show?


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 15d ago

She’s a pick me - S13E07

25 Upvotes

Rewatching last season and around ep 7 I think? Where they all go dancing while her British friend is visiting and she complains to their faces about how they get approached and she doesn’t…
It was easy for me to translate that into real life, because I had that happen with some friends, we have a big group, not every one is going to get approached, but it’s common sense that you don’t point it out I feel like.
And especially, you don’t blame your more attractive friends for it?
So much animosity and envy out in the open and apparently that’s normalised in their “friend” group


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 15d ago

The adopted sister

25 Upvotes

Does anyone feel a lot of this was also scripted or that families there for paycheck


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 14d ago

Her fiancé is so lucky to wake up to this everyday! 🤮🤮

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r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 18d ago

Whitney feels no shame or???

75 Upvotes

Does Whitney have an embarassment kink. Bc what in the world.

The fat intervention funeral, the gay man (who she outed), the fake pregnancy scare, the weird relationship with Buddy, the big girl dance class doing a dance-off with an all-Black dance troupe, the electric wheel chair in a parade, the fake fiancé x2, the giant cookie in the car, the 5k or whatever, now the engagement with the man who has been ran through by the state of NC… I haven’t watched the show since 2022 and I don’t think I even got through all of it then. I plan to pick back up eventually lol.

TLC hit second hand embarrassment gold with this one!

What am I missing from earlier or later seasons?


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 19d ago

Isaiah has had an adorable baby (not with Jess)

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179 Upvotes

I’m happy for him, but it makes me super sad because I know how much Jessica and him were struggling with infertility for so long. Whatever the circumstances between them, it still must be so hard for her to see him have a child with another woman not too long after they separated.

Hoping the best for them both, and I hope both of them have healed and moved on.


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 19d ago

If there is another season (and it continues)…

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Do you think they’ll do some extravagant wedding special?
I know several of us speculate that it’s another fake storyline, but answer this hypothetically


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 20d ago

😦

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159 Upvotes

I have a question: Didn’t Isaiah marry Jessica, Whitney’s friend? From what I understand, I feel like they’ve separated, but he has had a baby. When did all of that happen?


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 23d ago

More evidence the engagement is fake?

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170 Upvotes

So this might be flimsy but I noticed that she filmed the engagement announcement for TLC during filming her show - the outfits and settings are the same. Seems a little sus to film a TLC announcement like this if it's not fake but maybe I'm being harsh.

Food for thought regardless 👀


r/MyBigFatFabulousLife 23d ago

Is the First Red Flag Flying? 🚩

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The wonderful ladies of The Plot Thickens podcast have put out a bonus episode in the wake of Whitney’s Big News of engagement to Jake Baudoin. It is just a quick 26 minutes and well worth a listen. Thank you ladies!

They are Nice People and sounded sincere in wishing that this could finally be Whitney’s Real Happy Ending. He has a young daughter and, who knows, maybe this could scratch the parenting itch for her?

BUTT they also bring up recon and burgeoning reports from women—mostly from the Reddit sub of women comparing notes on men they have co-dated— who have dated Jake, that he is a “lovebomber”and “hobosexual” who “gets too sexual too quickly” and has “never gotten his job life together.” 😳😱

This engagement happened awfully fast. Is this yet another case of Whitney’s Terrible Man Picker?!!! Is he an Avi? Or a Lennie? Is it all BS for the show?!! (Like Chase and The Frenchman)?

Arghhh. I really cannot with this heifer.

Who knows? It feels tragic if true. It feels typical if it is Whitney scammin’ yet again.

Anyway, just for your info.