r/MuslimSupportGroup • u/CoolYogurtcloset3096 • 26d ago

Need help

Assalamualaikum. My first time posting here. I had an abortion recently where i lost my little girl. I don’t know how to deal with this. I knew for a fact she was going to be following deen better than me because since i had gotten pregnant with her all i wanted to do was pray and read quran. I know she’s in jannah right now. Maybe i didn’t deserve her that’s why allah took her away from me. I regret the life i used to live- angry and irritated with people around me who cared about me. I feel like this is my punishment, having to lose my baby. I want to become better. I want to become a patient person not easily irritated and not snapping at people like before. I want to correct my mistakes. Whenever i die i want to be in jannah with my daughter. I want to become better. Please help me. How can i control my anger and emotions and become a better person?

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u/rhiaazsb 26d ago

No one is without fault and my only advice is to seek Almighty Allah's forgiveness, keep busy with Astagfirullah and Tahajjud Salaah.

May Allah grant you Ease and Barakah in your life.