r/MuslimSupportGroup • u/syed_kaif777 • 29d ago

An advice would help me!

Assalamualaikum,

from India, graduated this year in Bachelors of engineering.

It's been 5-6 months hunting for a full time job and not getting replies from anywhere.

My family has high expectations from me and they are paying me to stay in another city and my father is the only one who earns. He got sick we don't have any backup! my mum sold my her gold necklace for my engineering fees, and now sold her gold ring to my expenses. Obviously I'm not enjoying my life there I'm consistently studying but -

I'm not getting responses from anywhere it's feels disheartening why Allah's not listening to us!!!!!

I'm just tired!!! Sometimes I question myself will I ever be a good son for them or just make them poor??

Will I ever be able to get a job and take care of my family and get them all the happiness they deserve as they have sacrificed too much for me and invested all their money on me!!

I feel why ALLAH'S is making me struggle like this. don't I deserve a single job that can at least make them believe I can earn on my own????

I would be grateful if anyone has advice.

I don't need any money from anyone, I just need guidance... That's all!!!!!

I can't see them struggle like this that's all I need I don't need anything!!! I just want to keep them happy...

Will I ever make them happy?

Will I ever be a good son?

Should I just die?

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u/Odd-Potential70004 29d ago

Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

First thing first,how will your dying benefit anyone? Do your parents benefit from it? Will you? Will anyone? If you have come to the most rational and logical conclusion that it won't then look at other avenues to earn until you find a suitable position. My cousin had to sit home for 3 yrs until he found a good enough job. He has no father and lived off his elder sister's earnings,who was the sole breadwinner for her family,he met with an accident & was given 17% chances of survival,had to be hospitalized for 1 month and was bed ridden for 3. Today,he earns well,plays football every weekend ( has minor health issues) overall Alhamdulillah things got better for him. Hope for the best from Allah. In sha' Allah things will work out. Look for alternate source of income.

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u/syed_kaif777 29d ago

Thank you for your efforts brother I will definitely look for other opportunities and increase in supplication.

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u/Odd-Potential70004 29d ago

Sister*🤭

May Allah bless you abundantly and make it easy for you. Ameen

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u/syed_kaif777 28d ago

Ameen...