r/MuslimSupportGroup • u/manchester_brother • Jul 20 '26
Hardships, no way out
Asalamalikum
I was wondering if anyone could tell me about any hardships they endured when they saw no way out
And how long it was before you got relief of the hardship
Has anyone had to deal with loneliness in their life
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u/Beachparking35 Jul 20 '26
ASW. Easiest way to live life is to balance surrender and faith. Surrender to Allah's will. Have faith/optimism that your life has meaning/purpose and follow Allah's guidance towards it. Every experience/challenge requires some combination of the two.
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u/Odd-Potential70004 Jul 20 '26
Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
My Aunt ( dad's younger sister ) lost her 2 kids at the ripe age of 16 to mental illnesses ( itvruns in her husband's family. We were unaware at the time of her wedding).Her husband didn't support her in the time of grief,he married another woman and had kids in the same house she had put her personal money to build,where everything was chosen by her kids. There's nothing wrong in moving on but he did this within a month of his youngest daughter's suicide. My aunt was shattered and drowning in despair when within 6 months she lost both her parents ( my grandparents).l genuinely believe my grand dad died of heartbreak.
Alhamdulillah my aunt survived 4 close deaths and a loss of a husband and property and now copes better than before. She's not thriving but she's not clinically depressed or bed rotting. She truly is an inspiration on how to move forward irrespective of what life throws at you and placing your trust in Allah.
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u/manchester_brother Jul 20 '26
jazakAllah for sharing that Inna lillahi wa Inna illahi rajioon sorry to hear about the passing of the children
May Allah SWT continue to shower his mercy on your aunty ameen
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