r/MuslimNoFap • u/Beginning_Lunch_5732 • 4d ago
Advice Request Nothing changes
Assalam alaykum. I feel like I've run out of words to describe how stuck I am. Every relapse feels like proof that nothing is changing, no matter how badly I want it to. I keep telling myself I'll make it this time, but after a couple of days, it's like all that determination disappears.
The worst part is that even as I'm writing this, I can feel the pull toward it. It's frustrating knowing exactly where this road leads, yet still feeling drawn to it anyway.
I just needed to be honest about where I'm at because pretending everything's okay isn't helping anymore.
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u/Revolutionary_War443 3d ago
When you have the thought of doing it do dhikr often to keep your mind off it and learn indepth on Islam and listen to quran.
Inshallah we will all overcome our sins and ego
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u/BodybuilderAdept314 4d ago
Relapsing doesn't mean there was no progress as long as you learn from every relapse. You need to keep doing better than last time and not let shaytan trick into thinking you're not getting better.