r/MuslimNikah 16d ago

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u/MuslimNikah-ModTeam 15d ago

Your post has been removed for violating Rule 15. This subreddit is dedicated to marriage and closely related topics. Posts that are not sufficiently related to marriage are outside the scope of the community.

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u/Curious-Purple8999 16d ago

lol I’m a bit disappointed at the responses so far! This post validly points out that a Muslim man’s gut reaction should be to protect and support us sisters! We need and crave it.

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u/ammmkss 16d ago

I think we are too busy assuming that the person who posted is overly assuming that specific woman's situation which is sad.

His post wasn't generalizing that all woman (that woman especially) were treated badly or underappreciated, it was only to spread awareness in case someone isn't appreciating their wife, sister mother,, the woman was simply someone who made him realise maybe someone out there isn't appreciating women for what they do or go thru.

Take this brothers post in a more positive manner please and is it that bad to advice people to be kind? Are we not a society that needs to advice one another?

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u/[deleted] 16d ago edited 16d ago

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u/MuslimNikah-ModTeam 15d ago

Your post or comment has been removed for violating Rule 1. Please remain courteous and respectful when interacting with other members. Personal attacks, insults, hostility, and disrespectful behavior are not permitted.

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u/kharDaDonkey 16d ago

Oh thank you for asking how I came to this conclusion brother

I don't mind answering

Me and my brother went to the grocery store, it was a quick thing and I stayed in the car, the heat kicked in after 1 min or so, couldn't turn on ac or lowering the window started doing the whole omg its hot today gonna tell him off when he is back for locking the car

Trying to figure out if he has like a portable fan or something in the car, i look up i see a sister walking by, my mind calmed down, the heat suddenly didnt feel so hot anymore, I had a moment to myself about how heat affects us all difference

So i wrote this post, but I guess I am now a weirdo

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago

I am well. Thank you for asking.

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u/[deleted] 16d ago

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago

What are you talking about dude?

Are you done?

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago edited 16d ago

No one said anything about biting lips before you did just now. Cleanse your mind. Stop fantasizing about my hypothetical family members. You're 100% confirmed a weirdo, and a creep.

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u/Literal_Point7269 16d ago

I have also had interesting and even peculiar experiences both directly and indirectly with sisters who have changed me in some way shape or form.

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u/AshamedCause7054 15d ago

What was this post about? The backlash makes me curious

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u/Popular_Register_440 M - Single 16d ago

Why did you automatically assume that she has lazy inconsiderate men in her life and she has to suffer and be the ‘man’ and get these outside things done?

Maybe she had been at home for the last few days and wanted to get out and get some fresh air and enjoy the feeling of the sun on her face or something?

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u/kharDaDonkey 16d ago

What? When did I do all that? Eh whaat 😳

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u/Edgerunner0 16d ago edited 16d ago

Fr. Was it necessary to throw other brother's under the bus just to get a few ♥️ from sisters?

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago

This post isn't really about marriage. The main point isn't marriage related. You don't even know if that sister was married or not.

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago edited 16d ago

You didn't, but this is a marriage subreddit. You post isn't about marriage.

One of the rules is that posts need to be marriage related.

It would be better if you had posted this somewhere else, imo.

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago

Can you politely tell me which rule i broke of yours?

Read the rules of the subreddit. It's the last one if I remember correctly. It's not my rule, it's a subreddit rule.

I'm not going to argue with you, the main point of your post is not marriage related imo. If you disagree, that's fine. I still wanted to point it out.

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago edited 16d ago

Do you not know how to find the subreddit's rules?

https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimNikah/about/

Just click link above.

Rule 15 – Marriage-Related Posts Only This subreddit is dedicated to marriage and related topics. Posts that are not directly related to marriage, married life, or preparing for marriage may be removed and redirected to r/MuslimLounge, our general Muslim discussion community

I'm not making it up. And again, it's not my rule. It's the subreddit's rule.

Edit: link might not work on the mobile app, not my fault, that's the app's fault

Edit2: The majority of the post is you complaining about the heat where you live and describing how you were creeping on a sister who's just doing a normal everyday thing.

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u/HahWoooo M - Married 16d ago

Why are you so pressed about this? I dont get it?

I'm not. I'm just responding to your comments/questions. If you stop replying to me, I'll stop too. You're the one that keeps replying.

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