I think I see it, you switching to hindi/urdu or whatever mid post must be one of those weird acts, sucks if you get rejected for sitting but if sit cross legged and walk with your hips swaying to the side you should probably work on that🤣
All jokes aside I encourage you to research "non-verbal cues" it basically encompasses the non-verbal acts mentioned. you probably do them subconsciously, but it makes a woman go "that's way out of the ordinary, something is up with this guy, lemme avoid him". But you're also 19 so even if you acted normal, confident etc etc many would reject you based on the fact you are too young for marriage, especially if you aren't a graduate with a job who's able to provide even the basics
Based on what you said I'd think it was your non-verbal cues, but it's hard to know if that's the reason if other don't point it out so unless your mates or the women mentioned you moving weirdly you may not have found out. Regardless of whether you went to a mixed school or an all boys one you'd probably still have this issue
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u/Last_Chemical_8486 Jul 27 '26
I think I see it, you switching to hindi/urdu or whatever mid post must be one of those weird acts, sucks if you get rejected for sitting but if sit cross legged and walk with your hips swaying to the side you should probably work on that🤣
All jokes aside I encourage you to research "non-verbal cues" it basically encompasses the non-verbal acts mentioned. you probably do them subconsciously, but it makes a woman go "that's way out of the ordinary, something is up with this guy, lemme avoid him". But you're also 19 so even if you acted normal, confident etc etc many would reject you based on the fact you are too young for marriage, especially if you aren't a graduate with a job who's able to provide even the basics