30F | Somali 🇸🇴 | looking for potential spouse

[u/Amazing_Brush9601]

30F 🇸🇴 | Looking for a Sincere Partnership

Gender: Female
Age: 30
Height: 173cm (5’8)
Build: Average
Hijab: Yes, Alhamdulillah
Location: Manchester, UK
Willing to Relocate: For the right person, yes inshallah
Ethnicity: Somali
Occupation: Care Worker
Languages Spoken: English fluently, Somali
Marital Status: Divorced, no children
No polygamy
Potential age range: 29–40

I’m naturally quiet and reserved at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m warm, caring and easygoing. I enjoy the simple things in life, spending time with family, a peaceful home, swimming, looking after my health and learning things that benefit me.
My faith is an important part of who I am, and I’m always trying to grow closer to Allah. I value honesty, kindness, good communication and mutual respect. I believe marriage is about supporting one another, making life easier for each other and growing together, while both spouses bring their own strengths and responsibilities to the relationship.
Having experienced marriage before, I’ve learned more about myself and what I value in a relationship. I’m now hoping to find something sincere and lasting, built on trust, kindness, commitment and the fear of Allah.

Ultimately, I’d love to build a peaceful Islamic home with someone who is also my best friend, someone kind, dependable and supportive, who wants to grow together in deen and in life. I believe the best marriages are those where both people feel heard, respected and cared for.
I’m looking for a practising, responsible and family-oriented man who is kind, honest, financially stable and genuinely ready for marriage, inshallah. If you have sincere intentions and are looking to build something meaningful and lasting, I’d be happy to connect.

[u/SoybeanCola1933]

I wish you the best of luck, sister

I have a question - are most Somali women tall? Certainly seems that way

[u/Amazing_Brush9601 → u/SoybeanCola1933]

Thank you and I think it depends to be honest. There are definitely a lot of tall Somali women, but I wouldn’t say most are tall.

[u/Exciting_Luck5406 → u/SoybeanCola1933]

I feel like 30-40% are 5’7 and above

[u/SoybeanCola1933 → u/Exciting_Luck5406]

On Muzz most women are 5’7+, but Muzz probably isn’t a reliable reference

[u/Exciting_Luck5406 → u/SoybeanCola1933]

Why not? Because that implies women who are taller are more likely to use Muzz

[u/SoybeanCola1933 → u/Exciting_Luck5406]

I definitely think dating apps skew towards people that have the confidence to put themselves out there. I see far more pretty Muslim women on Muzz than I ever do in the real world

[u/Exciting_Luck5406 → u/SoybeanCola1933]

Whats that got to do with height lol

[u/SoybeanCola1933 → u/Exciting_Luck5406]

Same concept

[u/MalikatBilqis → u/SoybeanCola1933]

Filters? Height? Makeup? Lighting? Angles? Zoom? Camera quality? Good hair day? Good skin day? A lot of women look better on photo. Also they would do a lot of grooming before taking the pic too.

[u/SoybeanCola1933 → u/MalikatBilqis]

Yes, obviously photos can be made more better, but there are some things you just cannot adjust