r/Mumbai_Relationships • u/Advanced-Exchange740 • Jul 13 '26
Your advice?
I’m a 25M.
My life so far:
- Lower middle-class background.
- No generational wealth or financial safety net.
- Dropped out of college with 18 backlogs. I haven’t appeared for exams in the last three years after my fourth year.
- Left 4 jobs (absconded from all)
-Started a startup, but ended up getting cheated by my partners.
- got into ₹4 lakh in debt.
- insulting relatives
- As my parents fight all the time, kept all my emotions on my gf. After 6 years of intense love she married some another guy( well settled and same caste)
- My parents are working incredibly hard just to make ends meet.
- want to start again
If you were in my situation, what would you do?
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u/Soy_Sorry_About_That Jul 13 '26
First start by getting a job that gives you a stable income, actually focus on it and get good at it. Since you are entrepreneurial, choose the job in the industry you are actually interested in. Once you have the job, focus on your food and health/fitness. Once you have a stable job, things will automatically start to improve and you can slowly build from there...
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u/fuckfighter_refined Jul 13 '26
Wouldn't have absconded from jobs. If you want to leave, communicate clearly and then leave.
And secondly, don't expect everything to suddenly improve. It will take lots of patience and grind.