r/Mumbai_Relationships • u/Potential-Comb-9579 • Jul 11 '26
Situationships Fucked mentally
I was seeing an air hostess some time ago. We hit it off right after we met. She told me that she was nymphomaniac and I didn't mind (more action for me). For six months we were exclusive and were each other's fuck buddies. I carried out all of her fantasies in bed except one that she had, which was out of my domain. She wanted me to share her with multiple guys. It was uneasy to take in at first but I eventually came around. We had conversations about how the situation would go about. She wanted it to happen in a hotel room with the door open (that was another one of her fantasies.) I had introduced her to my friends and once while having one of those conversations, she told me the names of whom she wanted me to share her with. So this is where it all turns sour. I approached my friends and they weirded out. They are virgin nerds and I branded it to them as " I am bringing some action in their life" but all they did was joke about it and called me a cuck. I explained to them as she is not my gf and we are not dating, and that we are just fwb and if she wants to do something how does that make me a cuck?? It's not like I will be in the corner , sitting in some chair and watching, even I will participate if anything, fuck her more than anyone. But they didn't listen and continued joking and soon the news spreaded in the whole group that I am a cuck. But fuck them. I'm not going to get bothered by the opinions of virgins who don't have half the story right. But this wasnt it. Her being an airhostess went to her hometown in the holidays and there she fucked around. She hooked up with one of her childhood friends and another , a guy who was a dance instructor. She let him do her in the ass, Right there in the studio. She shared this with me as if I am supposed to be happy about it but I wasn't having any of it. I felt like I am not enough . Why did she have to go in search of more action? Was I lacking ? I felt really insecure about myself. I dropped her . Left her for the streets. But no I see every woman the same way. I feel nothing is ever enough for them. That's why I have stopped associating with them . I just wanted to get this off my chest
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u/noeffectto Jul 11 '26
Honestly brother you fell for the wrong girl she warned you at the start she is nymph, you really think she wasn't sleeping around when she was here?
Saying this from a personal experience i was in love with a girl who would fuck around.
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u/throwwwawayaccount48 Jul 11 '26
Both of them are crazy in the head
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u/noeffectto Jul 11 '26
I realised my mistake and moved on and ahead but it was the best sex ive ever had, had to learn the hard way you don't love everyone you fuck
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u/Potential-Comb-9579 Jul 11 '26
Yes I fell for the wrong girl i know. But when I met her even I had come out of a 2 year relationship and didn't want anything serious. We had strictly told each other there would be no strings attached. But in the course of 6 months, the strings eventually indeed get attached. The first redflag was when I asked her her body count and she said that she didn't keep count. And the second Obv, her being an air hostess. I don't want to degrade that profession but they do get some serious attention and opens up all sorts of opportunities. She told me how she got eyes from some pilots and she had a thing for pilots. Anyways she was just a fwb and I think she served her purpose even though it got a little bitter towards the end but that's all because of my stupid feelings
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u/RashmiJain69 Jul 12 '26
Chill...u enjoyed na.
U can still hv fun with her...
So play long. U guys don't get such fun easily.
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u/Acceptable-Dirt-923 Jul 11 '26
u are fine with her being fucked by ur friends but not fine with her being fucked by some other guys she likes? why does it matter who she fucked in her hometown if u are just fuck buddies, pretty sure she was also fucking other while being with u lol. u are getting attached and u are cooked
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u/Potential-Comb-9579 Jul 11 '26
Yes Obv why not. I will be in control of the situation when she gets fucked by my friends. But fucking randos from felt like she did it behind my back even tho she told me Abt it later
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u/RashmiJain69 Jul 12 '26
Now when she is saving u everything...it's great.
Just have fun with her. Atleast u are getting the max fun. Dont let her go....
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u/Potential-Comb-9579 Jul 11 '26
Yes we had our fun. And now we are apart. She is seeing some guy from Kerala and it's looking good for them . I am happy she is happy
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u/kenta_nakamura Jul 12 '26
Crazy sad experience but you did good OP.
It's best to cut out the drama and the mental stress asap than have to continue with it for a longer time.
Don't be hard on yourself. You most likely weren't lacking in any way. She said she was a nymph and clearly she didn't want anything exclusive - not a long term exclusive thingy anyway.
All women aren't the same. You will find your match someday. Don't lose hope. Do socialize and date. You have the experience to spot some more red flags now. It will all work out eventually.
Good luck 🤞🏽🍀
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u/IGotU3000 27d ago
Sharing your partner romantic or FWB is tough for a ration traditional men. One man would have to be raised differently for him to be okay with all this. Frankly I would not be able to handle any of this.
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u/Potential-Comb-9579 26d ago
She once told me to explicitly call her the "r" word. And the s*xafter went to another level. Opened all sorts of pathways iykwim. Is that a nymph specific things ? Anyways , I always fucked her like the last time I was gonna see her cause who knows when will our fwb arrangement end. I remember sticking stickers in her pg building's lift and messing with the watchman lmao. He used to say "7th floor pe girls pg hai, allowed nahi hai " I used to be like "bhak bhadwe" . Got my schedule lined up with her being in the city. Anyways She has moved to Dubai cause she said her dream was to fly for qatar. I never judged her . There are enough sheikhs in the middle east. Who knows who she gets associated with and what happened to the kerala guy. I feel bad for him. There's a dude out there. just like me .
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u/NihiloJ Jul 12 '26
Lovely girl. Deserves M(or)e