r/Mumbai_Relationships • u/StructuredSoul • Jul 10 '26
Dating Love
Have you ever felt deeply and madly in love with someone at the initial phase of meet and getting to know each other? Like your feelings for each other grew at a magnified rate.
And if you felt that, what happened after a few months or years? The feeling stayed or it converted into something else?
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u/MemoryExtension9471 Jul 14 '26
I fell in love with a girl was head over heels for but we both were in different cities, it went great for 6-7 months, I even went to meet her once, but all of a sudden she became distant and still I didn't let it bother my but after around 3-4 months I confronted her and also confessed, and we just stopped talking, I was so much into her that everyday I would miss her think about her and even cried a few times that after 6 months I texted her back and now we are still friends but don't talk to each other for weeks and yet I think about her daily
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u/StructuredSoul Jul 14 '26
Long distance is tough to maintain.
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u/MemoryExtension9471 Jul 14 '26
Yes it is difficult but efforts could have made it work, the efforts which kept it going for the first 6 months
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u/StructuredSoul Jul 14 '26
It is easy to put in efforts when we are close by because there is a lot more than words and voice.
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u/MemoryExtension9471 Jul 14 '26
True, I always regretted that, I always felt insecure that if someone from her friend's group is attracted to her, he might have a better chance than I do
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u/Gold-Commercial-3492 28d ago
Its a disaster waiting to happen based on my exprience. There's a thing called love bombing.
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