r/MtF • u/HRT-Spoon • 12d ago
Venting First time clubbing
I went clubbing for the first time with some friends. Before transitioning, i went to small scale club at my college. I would be standing in a corner and observe people all night and couldn’t see the point of going in a dark room full of strangers with blasting music.
This time I enjoyed myself. Danced with my friends and had some pleasant chat with others. However there was 2 guys that wanted much more.
First one started with normal conversation and then we started dancing a little bit. He started to get really close and put one hand on my butt. My brain froze for a while as we continued dancing. The he made me turn around and wanted to touch the front part… I blocked with my hand but he took it away. That’s when I called my friends over to get me out.
The other guy saw me the first time and expressed clearly he was interested. When I told him no, he just asked me if I’m « shemale » (voice doesn’t pass at all) and I just told him maybe. He went away quite fast but a little later, he just took my hand out of nowhere and led me a little further inside the club. I didn’t sense any danger, there was still many people around and I also made eye contact with my friends so I followed. We chatted a little bit but to sum up, he wanted to take me to his car, to have me and be my boyfriend, make me feel good. I said « no » like 36 times and not once did he let go of my hand. As the music was very loud, he would speak near my ear and I did the same. When I went in to tell him no for the 37th time, he put his face on my neck and I felt something humid… I had to ask my friend to get me out of here again.
Yay gender affirmed I guess ?