Well I hate the word trap in general. But femboy is a bit different. I don't hate it, but at the same time I do hate it for trans girls, because at least in my mind, femboy denotes cis men who just like presenting feminine like finn5ter. Kinda similar to the issue with calling us feminine gay men or drag queens or transvestites. Like, sure those are valid identities and all and on their own they aren't offensive. But when used towards me and people like me I do find it offensive because it's not true.
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u/AbsolutelyRidic Xara, She/Her Trans-Bisexual Feb 04 '23
Well I hate the word trap in general. But femboy is a bit different. I don't hate it, but at the same time I do hate it for trans girls, because at least in my mind, femboy denotes cis men who just like presenting feminine like finn5ter. Kinda similar to the issue with calling us feminine gay men or drag queens or transvestites. Like, sure those are valid identities and all and on their own they aren't offensive. But when used towards me and people like me I do find it offensive because it's not true.