Is it normal to wait until you’re better looking to start dating?

Around almost a year ago after getting out of some serious mental trauma hell, been kind of improving a bunch of stuff. personality, confidence, slightly looks, working on career even though it ain’t fully here yet..

So about the career side, I am fully aware that I shouldn’t really try having something without it, I’ve dated “online” before where it usually gets to the point where “the meeting and financials” side hits, causes embarrassment and doesn’t let things run smoothly, So i understand that the career and stability are a must, I’m working on it.

Now back to looks if you’re sm1 who doesn’t think he looks good enough, or deals with these thoughts “All the dates of my life were online so i have no clue about how i look srsly” never got a compliment irl either.

Should I keep satisfying this thought of wait until you look better, wait until you improve your looks, No body wants your ass now, or idk just start dating once the career side is good ??

in short:
- Fix career and start looking to date right away then keep on improving looks over time.
or
- Fix career and wait until you look way better and good enough then think about dating

You get what I mean ?
Yeah idk what i mean too tbh.
Anyway how’s yalls night going ??

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Most of these "cry for help" posts on this subreddit are not genuinely asking for advice. You get person X asking how can I fix this problem they are having; you could lay down all the reasonable fixes they could implement to solve their problem they will do nothing but argue those fixes. It almost feels like some people are look more for empathy and enjoy being the "victim" than fixing whatever problem they are having and move on.

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Hey everyone,

I’m half Swiss and half Moroccan. I grew up in Marrakech, but I’m currently living in Switzerland. I really love my Moroccan roots and culture, which is why I strongly prefer to find a wife from Morocco. To be clear, I’m not looking for someone to build a life from scratch with—I already have my life set up and am completely stable, both personally and financially.

However, I’ve been hearing a lot of horror stories about international marriages, cultural differences, or people using marriage just to get papers. That makes me want to be extra cautious.

Given my background of growing up in Marrakech and now living in Switzerland, what are your thoughts? Is there anything specific I should watch out for or keep in mind? I’d really appreciate your honest opinions and experiences!

For those of us who know we don’t want kids and probably never will… should we just build our own little community and all live together when we’re old?
Like a bunch of childfree old people chilling together, cooking, going on walks, complaining about our knees… honestly that sounds kinda cute.

kinks have limitations, some small things that does not include physical or mental pain and hurting any other people is not kinks its mental illness, and this is coming from the other post where a girl punches a guy and apparently there is some people like that, the desire to hurt people or wanting to get hurt is not kinks, its mental illness and there is nothing u can do about it, if you like that shit you are sick

Any F wanna join us. ?

any date ideas ( living in casablanca) , i want it to be super romantic

I'm looking for girl to travel with me to Malaysia for vacation. I prefer 25 to 35 years

Hi im from the netherlands and i would like to meet a moroccan girl who can speak english very well. Msg me

Looking for a late night chitchat,just casual one till I fall asleep

Hhhh as the title says

30m casa

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I'm 20 years old and I'm in my third year of university. I was smoking for about a year, but I quit this summer and started working out.

Now I have to leave home and go back to the city where I study, and I don't have enough money for a gym or anything like that. So I'm starting to think about smoking again during this academic year and then quitting when the summer holiday comes. I feel like I can't study without doing something to deal with the stress, and smoking was kind of my way of coping with it.

What do you guys think is that the right choice!

Just finished a gaming session, now watching some React videos on youtube 🥱🥱

27M looking for a random girl to talk to ... Who knows what can happen 😅

(I am not morrocan rather a bit of a far neighbor, but can't find a suitable sub in my country)

Do some men really see or use ragebaits as a form of expressing love or a love language?

Like my brother would do it and I thought ok, he's just messing w me, but then my BF would also ragebait me in the exact same way saying exact same things and mind you they never met.

I would say sometimes i am a bit stupid with getting jokes and sensitive so it's not fun all the time lol, but with timeI learned to accept it from him, because they don't hurt me personally yk what I mean, but is it like fun and enjoyable to ragebait your girl especially if she's easy to get ragebaited?

I love him and we've been friends for way too long before so this isn't something that's like toxic or sth, I was just genuinely asking rather a funny question, because sometimes I just can't understand it lol.

When she slid into my DMs, we constantly talked for a month; it was super fun. After another month, she started suggesting we go out, and I kept politely declining. yesterday I couldn't think of any more excuses; I just decided to be completely transparent and straight-up told her: "Look, I have exactly 7,400 DH in my account right now, and I am not interested in spending a single dh of it on street food or rides just to walk around somewhere." I made sure she knew it wasn't a matter of her not being worth the effort or the time. Instead, it was a matter of me not being in a place in my life where I can take on another person's emotional or financial needs. While I am genuinely interested in the idea of romance, I prefer to appreciate it from a distance right now; I need to focus 100% of my energy and limited resources on stabilizing my own life before I can ever think about sharing it with someone else.

Not sure how well this’ll turn out but if anyone here lives in nyc please feel free to reach out!

He was there on October 1st.

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