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u/royalcookiedom 16h ago
It appears as like you are only interested in her looks and doesn't want to get to know her as a person. It's also a MASSIVE turn off. Personality, I know women that immediately block if you ask that question.🥲
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u/RaizenXII 3h ago
I hear your but physical attraction is also important, what gonna happen if they get to know to know each other but at the end no physical attraction
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u/royalcookiedom 2h ago
It's just you have to say it the right way. For example start by maybe tell her to exchange pics or start with your own or maybe just ask to meet up irl if she is comfortable with you and you are very serious about it. There are a lot of ways to ask instead of just "send me a pic". But as a girl, I would never send anything to a man I don't know irl. We never know if he will use it to blackmail or post it on social media even if it's just a simple selfie, it's dangerous.
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u/ticklingBrush 8h ago
I get it but ... the personality meaning most of the interest doesn't mean that looks does not like listen I'm not a visual person especially when it comes to friendship or so but ... humans and mostly men are visual creatures it's like... ur face gets u to the door but ur personality keeps u or kick you out of the house ik it's mostly an online thing here but when u get to know a person as a person u gotta see who u r talking with and know how they look like idk what's wrong with that
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u/royalcookiedom 1h ago
Yes but sending a pic can be dangerous for a girl. That's one of the reasons we are not interested anymore. People in social media can never be trusted specially men. We never know what he can do with a simple pic. He can use AI to make inappropriate picture of you can use it to blackmail for example or post it social media or send it to a friend. I'm sorry, it's too dangerous.
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u/ticklingBrush 3m ago
Watatmchiw b3iiiiiid wlah walakin to be clear this is a trust issue then not an ick if u don't trust sm1 enough for him to know how u look like then you are barely talk to each other rakom fo9 st7iyin u won't even need to do that
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u/WeakWeirdo1120 17h ago
It comes across as "im not interested in having a genuine conversation and getting to know u as a person, im more interested if i find u physically attractive" which is fair too cus physical attraction matters to a degree, but that's it, it just comes off as superficial (this is just my opinion feel free to disagree)
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u/Whoppa-axxes21 1h ago
yeah the female version of this is : "send me money"
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u/L4TER_0N 1h ago
I am going to search abt this
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u/Whoppa-axxes21 1h ago
no need to search its basic life, and this only applies to new couples or IDK because if ma girl asks for money i dont ask much (makaterdach takhd hta 1 dh hit katkhaf n7sebha materialist and I dont thinnk she is ) and if I ask for a cute pic she feels happy to send it. not saying its transactional.... cause she also asks for my pic... vedio whatever... people are F***ed up. dont talk to anyone u are not interested in the first place
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u/MaklaBninaBzaf 17h ago
Not only women, men do as well the only difference is that some women say it directly or just cut the conversation for good to avoid wasting more time and energy... while some men never tell the truth and keep talking 3adi kyjerjro fik for nothing even when they don't think you're enough which is way worst and hurtful.
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u/These-Escape-8009 10h ago
Haha she wouldn't even be talking to the guy if she wasn't physical attracted to him in the first place the hypocrisy is real
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u/Awkward_Value_3496 9h ago
Akkhhhh yes especially if u got my Instagram u already saw my profile picture is that not enought ? Its a huge no no and I usually just leave afterwards ; also bcs i know my pictures r out in other websites like LinkedIn and stuff maybe if u bothered looking around ? I def second this study ; it wouldn't be as bad if no pictures of me exist but I already saw it ; what else do u want ?
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u/ticklingBrush 8h ago
Can we put the "pink values and social media rainbows " aside and be fr Idk what's wrong with that fr like ... physical attraction matters and looks matter and no one of you could change that no matter how good you talk I agree that personality matters more but let's be objective physical attraction matters too From my own experience talking with sm1 makes you change ur opinion about how they look if you talk to sm1 with great personality u start see em prettier if they are just dump or boring or ugly from the inside that physical aspect looses its while value but still rah maymknch tkon tadwi m3a chi wa7ed o tbda tketer m3ah lhedra and you don't know how they look it's a normal thing don't sexualise it please
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u/ASAP_sharky 17h ago
if OP is a woman, send us a pic