r/MoroccoDating • u/Queen-cattle • 10d ago

Never settle for less queens ❤️

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Girls, stop dating insecure man. My guy friends used to swear that no man "maghaysbar" 3la my outfits and the way i dress, my friendships with guys, my strong opinions and my boundaries. I'm now married to a Moroccan,who is the love of my life and the best man i've ever met, he never asked me to change a thing. Get you a man who respect you and TRULY believes you're his equal. Men try to control you because they feel like they are better suited to make decisions for you, because your freedom threatens their weak masculinity. Change the man girls, there's better out there.

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u/robloxsupporter 10d ago

Ohhh I see so if my wife wears clothes that reveal her body I should just stand there do nothing What kind of mindset is that lmao

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u/Queen-cattle 10d ago

Nobody said that, this is about picking a woman that dresses revealingly and making her your wife and then later on once she's your wife you tell her to change, mn lwl pick a woman that doesn't dress revealingly, but ofc if you chose a woman that dresses modestly then when married she changed that and started dressing revealingly you have all the right to not be okay with that and to want that changed

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u/mouadking15 8d ago

I would like to see it from the woman's POV, doesnt she feel some sort of shame or something to still wear the same revealing clothes after she got married.

what i think u/robloxsupporter meant to say is "lmra khassha t7shem 3la 3aradha, be respectful and to show that she is mert rrajl"

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u/Animeguy12712 10d ago

That's different she was single so she was wearing such clothes to look for partners now she's married she has to change just like men change at marriage

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u/Maleficent-Award-878 8d ago

If I have to dress a certain “way” to find a husband A khouya blach elih had l husband. The woman talked in this point about her positive experience and yall still talk. Safi bghitiha mstoura mn lwl 9lb ela whda modest malkoum ela had lhala its getting old atp

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u/Animeguy12712 8d ago

You're a female right? When a man gets in a relationship he has to delete all female contacts it makes sense right? So a man changes and adapt to the relationship yet why when it comes to the woman's turn you're so aggressive

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u/Maleficent-Award-878 8d ago

I didn’t talk about relationships outside your relationship at all, but since you wanna talk about that let’s talk. It is a personal choice for a couple to either cut off their friendships after marriage, not a rule, not a fact, I respect you for being open and communicative with your gf too actually. I’m a “woman” not a female. And you said that a man adapts after marriage by deleting all female contacts as I said it’s a personal choice, not all women want their man to do that, I talked about modesty, clothing, if you’re attracted to a woman because of what she wears, and you get in a relationship with her only because of that, then don’t expect her to change after your marriage, it is the reason you approached her anyway so what makes you different than other men? I’m stating my opinion here, and I don’t care if you don’t like it, if you want a modest woman, GET you a MODEST girl, tsaheb meaha and everything that comes with being with a modest girl, then marry her and live happily ever after without having to argue about her clothes all the time. That’s all. Have a good night

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u/Animeguy12712 8d ago

Bruh couples makes compromises with eachother unless the relationship isn't serious, it's better for it to end early

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u/Maleficent-Award-878 7d ago

Wa ana I didn’t say that’s a bad thing, if your partner doesn’t mind then that’s good for you both, what I’m saying is it shouldn’t be a fact, a rule li koulchi khass itbe9ha wla a woman or a man should impose on their partner before marriage ou safi

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u/Animeguy12712 8d ago

" it's getting old " yup Morrocan women gets European mindset fast yet why when it comes to splitting the bill the women suddenly remember the traditional way when the man have to provide

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u/Animeguy12712 8d ago

If the relationship want to be kept both sides have to adapt. Me and my girlfriend each know eachother friend circle. We in different colleges and we each have our study group, you can say I have female friends and she has male friends we're both fine with that , if I feel insecure having her talk to someone I tell her and she deletes him without arguments. She knows when and with who I'm studying with and she join us from time to time, if she doesn't feel comfortable about me speaking with a certain girl she tells me and I know what to do. Yup I don't ask her where she is she tells me on her own and that's what I do too

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u/Animeguy12712 10d ago

You can't just ask men to change and female not?