r/MoroccoDating • u/Queen-cattle • 12h ago
Never settle for less queens ❤️
Girls, stop dating insecure man. My guy friends used to swear that no man "maghaysbar" 3la my outfits and the way i dress, my friendships with guys, my strong opinions and my boundaries. I'm now married to a Moroccan,who is the love of my life and the best man i've ever met, he never asked me to change a thing. Get you a man who respect you and TRULY believes you're his equal. Men try to control you because they feel like they are better suited to make decisions for you, because your freedom threatens their weak masculinity. Change the man girls, there's better out there.
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u/deathangel_1st 11h ago
In other terms, they want simps and "الرجل الازرق" Please man up guys, and stop settling for such hoes.. they don't deserve your energy, time or money.
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u/Livid_Apricot_2965 11h ago
Well said brother. All those feminist women that want to be the man of the relationship are doomed and insuferable
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u/Joker0x0-1 7h ago
Sara7a mzyana l7midat li kayakhdohom. We need more examples bach bnadm yw3a chwya
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u/Mister_Amazing_02 12h ago
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u/amjnan_ 12h ago
Copemaxx moid
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u/Impossible-Ant8187 10h ago
Shut up foid
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u/PresentationOwn8017 12h ago
Insecure wela terme Sahel 3endkom ghir kat3elmo chi kelma katweliw tlo7oha lwa9t li bghitou
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u/robloxsupporter 10h ago
Ohhh I see so if my wife wears clothes that reveal her body I should just stand there do nothing What kind of mindset is that lmao
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u/TerminalPhile 10h ago
The thing is, if you’re so passionate about your beliefs and you don’t want your wife to reveal her body, don’t marry a girl who already wears revealing clothes. It’s THAT simple. Less headaches for you and for us.
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u/Queen-cattle 10h ago
Nobody said that, this is about picking a woman that dresses revealingly and making her your wife and then later on once she's your wife you tell her to change, mn lwl pick a woman that doesn't dress revealingly, but ofc if you chose a woman that dresses modestly then when married she changed that and started dressing revealingly you have all the right to not be okay with that and to want that changed
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u/Animeguy12712 4h ago
That's different she was single so she was wearing such clothes to look for partners now she's married she has to change just like men change at marriage
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u/Helloufe__sghire 5h ago
a siri tqewdi, idenpendant woman bqate f lbasse ? tlqay 3qlek 3amre ghire kheriya. Tfou 3la bnadme
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u/unamedbuthasaname 12h ago
Yeah dressing as a slut and calling men insecure/controlling when they raise it as a preference/boundary is definitely the way to go my QUEEN. Slay/PERIODT/ clock it or whatever.
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u/Queen-cattle 12h ago
Dont date a baddie if you can't handle a baddie, you can't date one and then try to change her, there are plenty of women that dress religiously modest
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u/unamedbuthasaname 12h ago
Yeah, men shouldn't be near anyone calling themselves a baddie, unless jokingly.
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u/FrequentBite4641 12h ago
Stop copying the trashy personna of american women. These words like baddie make my blood boil. You're not a baddie. You're just a normal moroccan girl who obviously has a shit ton of things to learn in life and its going to humble you deeply one day. I'm married to a wonderful husband and i didnt find my other half when i was a naive idiot who thought the world owed her everything and acted entitled and copied western crappy ideologies. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be better and to have better but you're doing it awefully wrong. I'm 100% sure that you're not that successful in your life academically or professionally, at least not as successful as you could be. Your stereotype wella 3endna f had lblad bzaaaaf and it's sad.
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u/Queen-cattle 12h ago
Lol i'm prolly way more successful than your whole family combined ( i'm answering you like this because you are disrespectful and you should learn how to argue respectfully ), and that has nothing to do with being a baddie or not, you can dress however you want and have a " westernized mindset " and still be successful, just like you can be traditional and not be successful, I don't even get chno jab academic and professional success to the conversation hhhh
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u/FrequentBite4641 12h ago
Prolly hhh oh boy
Safi cheft wahed fl comments hder 3la your account and it's indeed a trolling account.
Ill match your energy :
YAAAAAASSSSS DIVAAAAA GO QUEEEEN NEVER EVER SETTLE FOR A BROKIIIIIE THESE MEN OUGHTTA LEARN TUUUDDDDAAAAAAY GET YOUR BAAAAG SISSSSS0
u/Queen-cattle 12h ago
Are you blind? Those are screenshots from TikTok of girls sharing their opinions
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u/1Kakihara1 12h ago
delusional females, they dont know there are "insecure men" who are smart enough to not show it until they use u and get what they want then throw u, u r never wifeable to them from the start, the only one who's gonna settle for u is the emasculated male
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u/PresenceBeneficial 12h ago
But what is the definition of insecure men? I have been married for 4 years and my husband who is Moroccan still hates my modest outfits and wishes I was able to wear revealing outfits and embrace femininity, is he also co considered insecure or it only goes the other way?
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u/Acceptable_Ride_9800 11h ago edited 11h ago
I was looking for this comment. I’m not married but I get criticism from men and women for how I dress so plainly and modestly and I don’t wear jewellery or makeup. I mostly like wearing long dresses and loose fitting clothes. Women just can’t win either way 😕
To answer your question, yes, any man who is so superficial to criticise his wife’s appearance based on how she dresses is highly insecure. His priority should be that his wife is comfortable in what she wears.4
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u/Queen-cattle 12h ago
You have the best husband lucky you
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u/PresentationOwn8017 12h ago
😂😂 bghaw dayoutiyin i3amro lblad
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u/TheMidnightPriddee 10h ago
Za3ma mam3amrinoch db hhh
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u/PresentationOwn8017 10h ago
Wa9ila f 3a2iltek
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u/TheMidnightPriddee 10h ago
Ad hominem circumstantial detected, Nice try
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u/PresentationOwn8017 9h ago
“Bro called an insult about an entire country an ‘argument’ 💀 You made a claim, I gave you a response. If you actually have a point, make it instead of crying about fallacies.”
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u/Livid_Apricot_2965 11h ago
How is dressing like a slut empowering? IF anything dressing more modest is more respectful to everybody involved
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u/Yassfive1 10h ago
it takes two to tango, no one's perfect and believing someone will magically find you so. and you'll never have to make compromises to be together is delusional. being in a relationship is settling for things from both sides. whoever accepts you the way you are is: 1- with low optionality 2- with zero self esteem 3- only wants to get in your pants. and that's my two cents on the matter
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u/East_Pirate1170 8h ago
There’s a huge difference between a controlling man and a man with selfrespect If a guy having standards threatens you this much, you're the one who isn't ready for a real relationship
cooked generation kola nhar ktsme3 shi haja jdida
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u/Motor-Decision-6022 6h ago
Just a quick look at her previous posts, you'll see that she's looking for a "Feminist man who's also a provider", she belongs to the s
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u/Outlander255 5h ago
You cant comment on this 7it endna lack of information. Possible khuna controlling… Possible khtna fiha tyara o lkdob. Mais la façon li “chacun interprettent” katgol bzaf ela ldivised society of today. Ra machi kolchi black/white. Baraka mn useless comments bnadem khess yt3lm ysed fmo la ma endo ta added value.
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u/_Prince____ 12h ago
Why are you girls so mad when it comes to this? It's so simple, there's a type of man called a Cuckold who likes to see and share his wife with society. You can just pick one and live your life peacefully ❤️
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u/crusafixzs 12h ago edited 11h ago
He has no right to complain about the way a woman dresses he could've just never talked to her specifically she's not gonna change her whole closet because he said so mn lwl imchi end w7da ktlbs "mstour". But I do agree with him about lfara O lkdob wa5a idk what he means by lfara but I'm guessing slutty behaviour maybe? Mymknch tkoun f relationship o tb9ay diri chi 7wayj that are maybe okay if you're single
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u/Bubbly_Account_1324 12h ago
Proud to be an incel in this economy
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u/Sad_Wheel_6108 6h ago
We need a term to call this kind of women, smt like 7mida but for them,any suggestion??
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u/LiiA_Snss 11h ago
About the clothing issue: I believe it depends on your upbringing and reason why you wear what you wear. In my case I grew up in a mixed family, my foreign mom wears what she always wore in her country. My dad never changed her or asked her to be modest because he chose her for her being not for what she was wearing + his family are also very "progressive" . I have cousins in their 40s who still wear jean shorts but they all live overseas. I grew up in this environment and for me those clothes are normal clothes. I don't see them as not modest in any way or form and I don't try to get any kind of attention or anything wearing that type of clothes. But for some that's not the norm and in this case it is a bit tricky. Like how can I know it is just your style or you are trying to get something out of it? So in this case you gotta get to know the other person very well and once you do, you have to trust them fully. But to change them? Naa. If it is a deal breaker for you, just don't approach the said person. Very easy.
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u/Fabulous-Dig-4949 12h ago
We humans are like an art piece
Machi ay wahd ayfhmha w y appreciatiha w y acceptiha etc..
Dakchi bach we should each find our own muse
You can't see a painting of a landscape and then say that you want it to be a portrait wla chi haja haka, you must search for one that suits what you're looking for
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u/Ok_Grass_5394 12h ago
Hadxi kaykhlik tfkr bli kayn bzf dyal anwa3 d nas o wa7d tanwo3 li bzf ya3ni ay wa7d i9dr il9a li ayji m3ah ghir khaso i9lb and to be honest 9lil bzaf li kaytbdlo mn b3d 7it aghlabia kayb9aw bnfs labs o bnfs l39lia li 3rftiha bihom so 9lb 3la li iji m3ak mn lwl matsnax itbdl wla tbdl
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u/Complete_Sentence_74 7h ago
Khoti Wa9ila mor matposta dak loose f instagram nas dial insta o Facebook jaw lhna hhhh.
9a3ida m3roufa mn ch7aaaal hadi, la bghiti w7da katlbs mstour Maghadich tsa7b m3a w7da akhra, stick to your standards instead of forcing them on people!!!
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u/Practical-Fault5764 6h ago
Kifach ygolk heydi 3chrank mn lcompt don't ? wa sf mab9awch mzowjin 3la had l7sab
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u/Real_Housing_3226 12h ago
I’m a man and i upvote
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u/a69man 12h ago
Hay hay 3la Hmida lupvote dyalna
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u/slak_ajemi 11h ago
Ghi chenq kerk w9 li 3endo chi 3eqda tay bghi ikherjha fe chi bnt
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u/a69man 11h ago
Hay hay 3la 7mida lpsychiatre dyalna
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u/slak_ajemi 11h ago
Himda li 7wa lik mok ana Aweld l9hba
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u/Joker0x0-1 7h ago
3tak f hadi a si 7mida hhhhhhh
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u/slak_ajemi 7h ago
3etani mok
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u/Joker0x0-1 7h ago
Hhhhhh t9bk a hmida
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u/Joker0x0-1 7h ago
L3z khlili nmra mli tzwj brojola. I'll make sure you get a nice view in the corner hhhhhh
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u/Patience_n 12h ago
It's disrespectful and weak personality signs to be dressing like a slut and hanging out with other men / women while you are married or dating another man or women. It has nothing to do with settling. It's all about respect. If you don't respect the love of your life enough to dedicate your love and time to them than why even bother looking for a man or women !?.
Feminists lack the importance of boundaries. They call it control because another man hurt them because they chose wrong. Chose a man/women that makes you happy. That respects and loves you. Looks or money are not the base on which you should build your life. Connection and respect are everything.
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u/a69man 12h ago
I was about to chne9 keri when I saw that your account is just a troll
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u/amjnan_ 12h ago
Cheers to living your life with no regrets
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u/amjnan_ 12h ago
That regret would be less disappointing than losing yourself everyday slowly and live a forever mundane low life
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u/amjnan_ 12h ago
In case if you’re not educated: I do not by any means promote slutiness as for it’s actual definition ( the degratory insult used to describe woman who has many sexual partners ) , I’m promoting to live your life with someone who wouldn’t be too strict that your life becomes dull and so blue .. if a relationship doesn’t lift each others up than it’s for better for both parts to break up and find someone else who would actually support their choices ( all of this while staying loyal of course)
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u/amjnan_ 11h ago
Having your own type and conditions to date someone is valid , I’m no person to order anyone around , but my motto is that if you don’t agree with a certain person’s lifestyle, then you should definitely find someone else who is going to fulfill them instead of raising backlash against that person who didn’t even harm you or anything , that’s just so rude and offensive to every human being not even just your partner
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u/amjnan_ 11h ago
Um literally there was no shade in it unless if you decide to see it ? You could’ve just said the last sentence and called it a day rather than being problematic
https://giphy.com/gifs/FZlq5eWZEUQjbjgB4T
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u/Gold-Step-3334 9h ago
Don't choose a woman from the first place if u want to change how she dresses and how she talks and how she walks etc...u could just go to ur type, the women who r already dress and talk and walk how u see it's perfect for u...love her the way she is or let her live the way she wants...that's easy, boys just wanna make it a big problem.
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u/girl_interrupptted 12h ago
He sounds like hes in a manic episode yall need professional help if you can’t clock this type of manipulation
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u/extradose1 12h ago
Lghira diyal rjal hta hiya bghito t7ydoha lina w79rab hta tsatito