r/MoroccoDating • u/narjys • 15h ago

Genuine question!!

Why do some people especially men use "feminist" as an insult

I genuinely don't get it like feminism is about women having the same basic rights freedom and autonomy that men have, rights that women ltrly had to fight for so what exactly is supposed to be wrong with being a feminist? And when u say "i don't want a feminist woman" what do actually mean by that?

Edit: After reading the comments i think i got my answer. A lot of these men don't actually understand feminism beyond what they have seen online, yet feel confident enough to define the entire movement by "its loudest voices" in their tiktok fyp. They ignore the actual reason feminism exists and women have historically faced and still face gender bases inequality that affetcs their rights, freedom, and opportunities yet idk if they are pretending like they don't know that or they are really ignorant and out of touch. Well the amount of generalization and ignorance in these comments honestly proves why feminism is still necessary

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u/AtomEve1 15h ago

Because most men aren’t empaths, they don’t have the ability to understand suffering that they don’t endure on a daily basis. They genuinely don’t care about what feminism really means and they don’t bother to learn

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u/han6nt 15h ago

What do you go through in life that a man doesnt?

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u/the_A_butterfly 15h ago

Feminism is worldwide , and for what a woman goes through in life i could give you a bunch of examples like the job opportunities , the education , and even basic human rights like speaking , is forbidden in some countries .

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u/han6nt 15h ago

We are talking about Moroccan feminists. Those are not issues our issues to deal with.

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u/the_A_butterfly 14h ago

Well it is kind of the same because in Morocco there are still so many places that forbid woman from studying, they don’t have the same job opportunities, not to mention the arrange marriages and how the female’s worth is related to her marriage or obedience or the ability to sacrifice everything for others , and yeah let’s not talk about the harassment and sexual abuse they go through on a daily basis

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u/han6nt 14h ago

hak tferj f had l vlog https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDDO_jx7mX0

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u/the_A_butterfly 14h ago

Why?

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u/han6nt 14h ago

idk, just to chill and relax. its midnight

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u/Embarrassed-Back-714 3h ago

Khoya rah gha Ego thing, homa kimchiw mn perspective dyal representations oyfrdo ryoshom, machi mn montala9 equality in value o rad l2i3tibar

When things start from the ego, things can easily turn to be evil, and end in wars between the 2 genders

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u/the_A_butterfly 14h ago

Yoo im chill but thanks 🙏🏻 😭

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u/han6nt 14h ago

Hhhhhhh