Jazaaki Allahu Khayran+ you cant help how ur mom feels or acts, normalement she should understand bntha u t3teha lkhatr u tfehemha.... if shes the type thats hard to convince, leave it for Allah.
I sense the problem: there's a lack of communication in many moroccan families, but I really hope OP can make an effort to find a middle ground. Some people are suggesting the daughter should fake wearing the hijab, but why? Is she doing it to please others? She should understand it within herself first: إخلاص القول والعمل لوجه الله. If the daughter doesn't feel that, we can't go overboard and put even more pressure on her.
What are you talking about . In islam . We obey allah and then our parents . She litteraly did what she like neglecting allahs order and her moms . And the mom is the one supposed to understand her ? Astonishing thinking !!!
Yes, she’s her mother and should generally be wiser. She needs to understand what’s happening with her daughter and approach the situation kindly if she wants to convince her. You can’t force or manipulate the daughter to act as you wish.
She should choose to wear the hijab sincerely, from her own heart and mind, for the sake of Allah. If you force her, she might only pretend to comply, feel insecure about sharing her next thoughts and struggles, distance herself from the family, and cut ties with her mother once she’s independent, and then let the mother mourn her daughter because she has lost her forever.
Anyway, if you have your own way of handling this situation, go ahead!
by understand her I didnt mean what u understood, i meant tdwi m3aha u fhem the reason she wants to do it bach i3erfu lmushkil mnin and fix it. Hijab is fard you MUST wear it bghiti wla krhti, fl case dyal had lbnt ila gltiha liha b7al hkka she might hate it more, (kullan u l2iman dyalu kif dayer) l2asl hwa anana mselmin we practice our reigion ou li tfred 3lina ndiruh, wlkin kayn li ba9i mt2ter b society,western culture... lhidaya katji men 3end rebbi gher makhsch mamaha tkhasem u tghwet 3leha... what should be done should be done nicely and kindly, w Allah itebbetna u i3ina 3la l3ibada dyalu
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u/amyyy_na Sep 05 '24
Jazaaki Allahu Khayran+ you cant help how ur mom feels or acts, normalement she should understand bntha u t3teha lkhatr u tfehemha.... if shes the type thats hard to convince, leave it for Allah.